Update: May 17 - Our "hiatus" is over and we are resuming our search for a submissive interested in serving us both.

We are a lifestyle dominant married couple in our 40's who reside in the suburbs of Philadelphia, PA. Both of us are intelligent, attractive, very well educated, and professionally employed. We are both safe, sane, experienced dominants with a strong interest in power exchange and control. The psychological elements of domination and submission appeal to us greatly. We do not view this as merely a kinky way to have sex, or as a part-time hobby.

Our interests are varied, and include creative and restrictive bondage, humiliation, sexual service, discipline, erotic photography, and a wide variety of other activities. We're not into anything illegal or dangerous. We are serious and strict, but are willing to be quite patient with those who are new to all of this.

Ideally, we are seeking an ongoing, real-time relationship with a submissive female. We would also be very interested in hearing from couples where BOTH partners are submissive and interested in serving another couple. Dom(me)/sub couples are also welcome to contact us, but understand that since neither of us switch the opportunities for anything beyond friendship and conversation would be limited. Under no circumstances are we interested in hearing from single males.

We seek someone of any race who is intelligent, honest, and open. While our preference would be for someone our age or younger, we are willing to consider all ages. Given that we are only interested in real-time relationships, you should be within reasonable geographic proximity to us or be realistically able to relocate to this area. We have no interest in long-distance or cyber relationships.