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i have been interested in being a submissive for much of my life. In general, im a very confident, outgoing, and type A personality. When a strong and superior Woman can put in my place, however, i get weak in the knees and find myself wanting to do anything I can to keep Her happy and give of everything I am to Her. im more of a service oriented sub so this means my greatest pleasure comes from keeping my Domme happy. i leave my interests off of here because it isnt about what i want but what my Domme wants. For me, my interests should be Her interests, what She wants, and what it takes to keep Her happy. I only have a few hard and soft limits, which i will discuss when we talk. i also enjoy being outdoors, sports, movies, and learning new things. i am educated (hold a Masters degree), organized, confident, and have a sense of humor that can light up a room. When most people find out im a sub they are often surprised, but the right Woman can put me right in my place. Because i have done this for a while and i have a good head on my shoulders i am not going to give myself to any Domme who demands it. However, if You are one who is willing to get to know me on a personal level and control not only my body but also my mind and my soul, then i would welcome Your conversation and i hope that You would contact me. Thank You for Your time.

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1/18/2018 7:17:38 PM
My Lady asked me to edge for five minutes this morning. I laid down and began to stroke thinking of her. It didn't take me long to get worked up, especially since I had just shaved my pubic hair and that always increases my sensation. Within three minutes I was about to climax but slowed my stroke as I felt the orgasm build. I continued to stroke but had to slow way down to prevent orgasm. Just before I reached five minutes I squirted some precum but that was all. Although I didn't orgasm the feeling of doing as she instructed created a high that is beyond that of a fleeting satisfaction. I'm lucky to be her boy.

1/16/2018 7:24:41 PM
Six things expected of a sub 1: Trust: to submit is to trust. A sub must feel comfortable to give up control and not challenge the Dominant at every turn. The sub must trust that the Dominant knows what is best for him or her and trust that his submission will be accepted and cherished. 2. Loyalty: a sub must be loyal to their partner. It is the responsibility to commit totally to the Dominant partner and not seek others for any reason without permission. 3. Obedience: the sub needs to understand their place. Although their input will be listened to at the end it is the sub's place to accept the Dominant's final decision and obey commands. Obedience is how a submissive earns their place. 4. Service: it is a sub's place to make their Dominant's life more pleasant. The smallest and largest tasks should be met with equal zeal. The sub should get their greatest joy in service, whatever form it takes. 5. Pleasantness: a sub can be loyal and obedient, but an attitude of toxicity would make that null. A sub should act in a way that makes the Dominant enjoy having the sub around. This is another way the sub adds to the Dominant's quality of life. 6. Intelligence: a sub must know what is expected of him or her. A Dominant shouldn't have to explain the tasks repeatedly. The sub must learn what the Dominant likes and expects and remember it always

1/16/2018 7:21:58 PM
Four women who have influenced me. 1: My grandmother, mother, and sister: Three women who are very similar but whose influence on me was diffetent. All three were very proud but not arrogant. Loving but unyielding. Smart but so sarcastic they aren't always taken seriously. My grandma was in many ways the stereotypical grandmother. She was sweet, upbeat, loved having family around, loved cooking, etc. Although she raised a family in the 1950s, however, she was far from the stereotypical 1950s housewife. She was career minded, first working as a secretary and teacher at a school then as a personnel manager in a factory. She was also the type who would never let an opinion go unheard. I didn't hear this story until after she died but once when she was working at the school she heard that two women would not be allowed to walk at graduation and receive their diplomas because they were pregnant. She argued with the principal of the school for nearly an hour before he relented and they were allowed to walk. Her sweetness but strength is something I still value to this day. Speaking of strength, my mom has always exerted a quiet strength in everything she's done. Like my grandma she was very career driven, earning a bachelor's and master's degree and working in a mental hospital while raising a family. Like my grandma she valued family and was a very religious woman. Despite having a traditional view of things though she has not been afraid to stand for herself. When I was seven she had grown tired of my father's drinking and being neglectful and told him that she had fallen in love with another man. She stood tall, even after my stepdad's ex wife painted my mother as a homewrecker. Although my mom was happy to be a "traditional" wife she made no secret to the fact that she was the primary breadwinner in the family and never let her opinions be a secret. My sister is a very proud woman. Proud of her intelligence. Her accomplishments. The progress she has made in life. Growing up we fought a lot but as adults she is probably my favorite relative now that my grandparents are both gone. Although we are both very liberal she often helps me to see things I do not. Such as the situations around the trials that people face and the need to help everyone we can. I often like to tell her she got all the intelligence and compassion in the family, but I got the sarcasm. 2:Christine, a friend of mine. She is one of my closest friends and someone I have been through a lot with. We met nearly fifteen years ago and have experienced a lot of growth together. We discuss everything and she is one of the few people in my "normal" life who knows I'm a submissive. She's also very much a feminist. Because of this I have learned a lot. From seeing how women are mistreated at every step of life to how more is expected to women to developing my views that a man can find true happiness in pleasing a woman. Her being a survivor of sexual assault has also influenced my desire to be a comfort and advocate for those who have suffered. 3: Mrs. Stanley. An English teacher I had in junior high school. It has been said that your best teachers are those who inspire you to do more and that is the case with her. Although English was the subject she taught I also learned many life lessons. She was someone who helped me come out of my shell as an awkward 13 year old and be more confident in myself. Yes, much of that was because I had a crush on her but also because she put so much effort into every student. Like many women I value, she was also someone who was not afraid to express her opinions. Even today we still talk on Facebook sometimes about the state of the world and how much things suck. 4: Mary Shelley. I wanted to include at least one famous person and Shelley was the one I settled on. I find her personal life fascinating, from growing up as an early advocate for feminism with her mother to managing the careers and editing the works of both her and her husband. Although Frankenstein is not one of my all-time favorite books, it is often considered the first work of science fiction, which is my favorite genre. In a lot of scifi fandoms there is a thread of misogyny that is often less than silent. I can't help but remind people who say that women don't have a place in science fiction that the genre would not exist if it weren't for a woman

1/16/2018 7:17:59 PM
Four men who have influenced me. 1: my grandfather. It would be next to impossible to entirely put into words what my grandpa meant to me. He was my favorite person growing up. My best teacher I ever had. The person I relied on when life had given me more than I could handle. He passed away in 2013 but I still think of him every day. His influence touches me in many ways. From seeing the value in saving money to the importance of putting my best effort forward in everything I do to the importance of being active. He was the type of person who everyone who knew him had only nice things to say about and I strive to be the same. 2: Mr. Feely, 8th grade history teacher. History was always my favorite subject in school. It was to the point that I was almost embarrassed by how much I enjoyed history, but then I had a teacher who was more passionate about history than I had ever seen. Not only was he proud of his passion for history, he started his first day of class by announcing "I'm a nerd and a geek," and this was a good twenty years before the whole nerd chic trend so it wasn't like he was trying to show off how cool he was. He helped me to see it is ok to embrace your passions and your weirdness. 3: Dr. Paulson college professor. Academia has no shortage of arrogance but sometimes that arrogance is earned. My academic supervisor and advocate in grad school never grew tired of talking about his own work or studies but his work was also quite influential in his own field. Also, if I had written something he felt was of merit he had no problem promoting me as well. I had written an article for a newsletter and he even touted during a live broadcast at a convention. He was also the person who steered me to writing a thesis and having that thesis published. Even though the thesis has all of three copies in circulation it still stands as one of my most proud moments. 4: Mr. Carson, manager. When I started at Kroger I had planned on staying there for about three months. At the time I was substitute teaching and working at Wal-Mart, which had become unbearable so I left there for Kroger, where I planned to stay until I found a full time teaching job. Mr. Cox was the typical guy who started off as a bag boy thirty years ago and worked his way up and knew everything in and out about Kroger. He wasn't always easy to work for, but he was also not short on praise if he felt you had earned it. He was the first person who truly made me feel like I had a future at Kroger. And when the teaching job offers came I decided to stay at kroger and work my way up. I'm still not sure if I plan working here as a decades long career but he was someone who believed in me.

1/16/2018 7:12:19 PM
What does sacrifice mean to me? I feel it means two very different things. One that is terrible and one that is beautiful representation of one's character. The first, terrible version of sacrifice is a small or large group of people chooses an individual or group to catch the brunt of their violence. This can take on many forms. There is of course the cliche of an animal or human being killed as part of a religous ritual, but sacrifice can often take on many forms. Systemic racism is a form of sacrifice, as the dominant race controls others through police brutality, a biased judicial system, lack of opportunities for nonwhite, etc. Misogyny is a form of sacrifice, as it perpetuates the myth that men can take anything they want from women even if by force. Imperialism is a form of sacrifice, as its driving principle is the people and resources of another land are for the taking. This form of sacrifice takes on many forms and the scars can be felt throughout society. The second, beautiful form of sacrifice is that of a person or group pitting his or her own wants or needs away to fulfil the wants or needs of another. It's the single parent working a dead end job so that her kids can have a better life. It's the teacher staying hours after school ended yo work with another student. And yes it's the submissive working to please his partner. This form of sacrifice is often portrayed as "giving up" something, but I would argue that it is instead having a focus on a prime ive. Yes that means that other interests might be overlooked, but it is with a bigger goal in mind which will make it all worth it.

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 Age: 40
  Texas