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| *No longer use this profile. You can find me on our couple's profile: pwnerandpwned*
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I've never searched for a relationship with the starting point being a shared sexual interest, but have come to realize that because this is such a big part of me, I need a mate who shares that. Ideally, I want to find a partner for a long term relationship. I'm open to something long distance, but I cannot be the one who eventually relocates.
I'm in general a dominant, but do enjoy the occassional switching of roles. I'd like to think that I work a bit differently than the cliche' Master type, but I suppose we're all unique in our own ways.
About me:
Teacher -- Educated to teach elementary kids, but ended up teaching at risk teenagers.
A bit geeky -- I like board games, video games, computers, ect.
Christian -- Not a huge church attender, but I have strong beliefs and they do guide my daily activities. Would like to attend church again some day if I ever felt I fit in somewhere.
Intelligent -- Is there any possible way to say this without sounding egotistical? Yes, it's true, but a lot of people say that about themselves...and I know some are lying. ;)
Goofy -- I like to make odd jokes, say silly things, and just overall try and make people laugh.
Fetishes -- My main draw is bondage and fetish clothing. I really see myself as having a giant room full of clothing and devices once married. I do enjoy the D/s power exchange to go beyond just a sexual scene, but it doesn't necessarily have to be a 24/7 thing either.
What I want:
I need to share religious beliefs with the person. That's just me -- I can't deal with other parts of the relationship if we don't see eye to eye here.
I need someone I can chat with and communicate with well. I'll try my best to make communication work with anyone, but prefer that we're somewhat close in the way our brains work so that it isn't a constant strain.
I'd like sexual compatibilty. I can adapt a little towards her and she a little towards me, but it's best if we do share most sexual interests and have a similar sex drive.
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For now, I suppose that is all. I'm open to talk to anyone, be it friendship or prospect of more. So, feel free to write. :) *tips his hat goodbye*
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I like to read my partner's messages. It's not because I'm insecure and want to make sure other men/women stay away...it's because people are funny and I don't get to see it as often as a male (mainly because males write the more entertaining messages). I see why so many girls on here are constantly complaining and writing bitter journal entries. I'd be a little bitter, as well, if every time I saw a new message, I unveiled something like "hey sexy, how r u". The internet is awesomesauce! |
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I have a new job, so usually don't feel the need to log in or post in my journal. However, I had a quick thought today...
Browsing through profiles, it really seems the average IQ of dominants (both male and female) is lower than that of submissives (on this site...not necessarily true of those actively having relationships). That just seems a bit ironic to me; I'd think I'd want the leader of the relastionship to be the smart(er) one. |
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There are so many things to say about the message boards, but one thought seems to pop up almost every time I read a new message:
Why are you asking these people how to deal with the most intimate and complex decisions in your life? I can't imagine why anyone would want to seek advice for so many of the things they ask. Questions like "Hey, anyone know the best way to clean this leather garment?" are great, but often people seek much more personal advice. These people don't know you or the situation well enough to be a good source of advice, and even if there are some good snipets of wisdom in there, you'll probably have a hard time figuring out which to listen to since you couldn't figure out what to do in the first place.
There's a phrase I've heard before...I think it's "The blind leading the blind"...
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I'm definitely going to take a picture of myself shirtless with a camera pointed towards the mirror. Or, if I'm feeling more creative, I might just write "tool" across my forhead... |
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Dear World:
I'm pretty pissed off at you for having it all figured out. Everyone I see is getting married, settled in careers, and is seemingly happy with the lives they've found. How did you all figure it out? Most of you are dumb...some not...but certainly many seem to have no amazing talents that have made them "figure things out". I'm mad at you all because I hate you...I hate so many things about you, but at the same time, I kinda wish I could be you. |
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I'm curious if a name should be defined as what you call yourself, or what others call you. I notice many on here calling themselves "Master___" or "Sir____". I'm pretty sure, for the most part, no one calls them this (some may have a sub who calls them this, but...still...I'm sure rarely they are called that, if at all). Really...maybe the first thing I wondered doesn't even matter...and more what matters is it just seems silly! Regardless if someone is into D/s, I'd never introduce myself as "Master Randy" (Randy is my name, BTW). All this implies to me, upon first sight, is that someone has made up a wonderful make believe world where they get a super cool title...and maybe live in a castle...and dress in totally kick ass all dominant-like costumes...and...have accessories like whips...and ermm...5,000 hit points 4 teh winz!
I don't know why I'm writing this...I have a few minutes to kill before bed lol. But, do be aware, if I see such a name, I (and possibly others) are giggling behind our monitors.
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I really hate when people won't apologize when they have been mean/rude/hurtful. I'm starting to realize how rare apologies for these types of actions are.
Now, I understand that sometimes people feel they were justified and shouldn't have to apologize. But look...there is never justification for being a dick. There can be reasons that prompted the anger/rudeness, and those could be things that are pretty likely to make someone act out (IE, someone else being a jerk first), but that's still never really an excuse for being harsh to another person. There are even some events where the person doesn't see any rudeness/cruelty/etc in what they did or said. That still doesn't mean it should go without an apology, though. If you hurt someone, and you know it, there is always reason to apologize; you needn't even admit a mistake, but merely apologize for any hurt that you have caused them.
...I just think people would get along much better if they followed a policy like this on a day to day basis. And...well...I think it's just something you'd desire to do if you were a genuinely good person. |
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Below is my new favorite website for this week. I've never had a way to characterize some of the guys I saw on myspace or online dating sites (even quite often here). I'm glad this blog has done it for me!
http://www.hotchickswithdouchebags.com/ |
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I just watched "The Pet". I was really really dissapointed...some of the worst acting I'd ever seen, and the plot didn't have enough detail to make the story at all believable. The good part: The girl was cute and often naked and leashed. So...ermm...in conclusion: No watchy this movie!
K thx bai and stuff. |
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Regarding BBWs:
You all know the term -- Big Beautiful Woman. It seems fairly clear...a woman who is big (usually overweight, I've never seen a really tall woman call herself BBW) and also beautiful. BBWs exist...some girls are quite pretty and also overweight, but I don't think this term is often used correctly.
I generally see two problems with this term. The first is its wreckless use. It seems there are lots of overweight women who automatically call themselves BBW. They seem to assume that both Bs go hand-in-hand...as in: Well, I'm big, so I'm a BBW, and they completely forget the other requirement of BBW.
The other issue I see is when BBW is not meant as a literal interpretation. In this case, BBW is really just a clever way to say something more abstract like "I am large, but am completely okay with being large and even though I know being overweight is not a normal standard of beauty, I still want to believe I'm beautiful and remain overweight". This is not a good mindset...no one should delight in being overweight with the sense of pride you see in many who claim to be a BBW. Being overweight has health risks, and even if it never affects your health it will certainly affect your ability to be as agile and mobile as you'd like.
My real question...why would anyone really need to tell someone else they are a BBW? Post an accurate picture. People will be able to tell you're heavy, and then they can judge whether or not you're also attractive.
But...that's just the opinion of this MHM (midsize handsome man).
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People on here sure are ugly.
Okay...not all of them, but it seems a lot are, and that's just those who are willing to show their pictures. Now, I understand I'm not (insert the name of some well known attractive male), and don't expect all women to be (insert name of some good looking female), but it does make me curious.
I wonder, sometimes, if women end up coming to BDSM because they don't feel attractive in the traditional sense. I think being able to find a place where attraction is based more on service, loyalty, and being objectified might be something that these women can take on that gives them a greater sense of sexual self-worth. At its core, there would be nothing wrong with enjoying those things, but if it gives self-worth where there was previously self-loathing, I wonder how healthy that is. *shrug* I'm not a psychologist. |
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| Age: 29 |
| Manchester,
United Kingdom |
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