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I am an experienced male, here seeking a long term FLR. I am service oriented and not really looking for play or sessions. There is nothing wrong with being playful, but I am looking for a real life of service, worship and purpose in relationship with a woman who is confident, whip smart and dominant. Serving a woman in charge works well for me. It provides me with a sense of purpose and satisfaction in jobs well done. It feels comfortable and natural for me to submit and obey a woman who knows that she is a leader, a queen, a Goddess. Obeying and serving such a woman, the head of household, is my place. It is satisfying. i find contentment with that life, providing service, obedience and worship. It is what I am supposed to be doing. I am masculine, smart and living a stable life, a hard worker with confidence and accomplishments in the working world. I have interests and enjoy life most of the time. I seek one interesting woman with the power and bravado to take me as her willing, eager and obedient servant. I am healthy and active, athletic. I don't drink, smoke or use any recreational drugs. I don't take any medications either. Sobriety with healthy living is a choice I made many years ago and it works well for me. I have been on this site before. This time, I really am going to keep my entry here short as I can and to the point. I do like to write. I will probably add more in the journal section as time goes by.

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3/13/2024 12:56:28 PM

I find it interesting that the site here, or whomever is maintaining it, keeps modifying some of the interests and their definitions. I think the ways interests for orgasm control and denial have been shown in profiles have changed several times in the last year or two. Obedience Training has become Obedience Roleplaying. Female Supremacy became Female Sovereignty. Female Supremacy is still used extensively in other BDSM, D/s or FLR sites and discussions. Why the change, and does it really make a difference? I like words, so I am only curious, not critical. 


3/1/2024 11:29:37 AM

I don't think I am a masochist. I don't really want to experience pain. However, I am quite excited by the idea of a being in relationship with a woman having the confidence and attitude to use some corporeal punishemnt for discipline or correction. I am admitedly quite interested in a woman who owns a cane just because she likes owning one, whether her man is interested in that sort of thing or not. I do think often about a life working hard to obey such a woman and minimize her need to use it. 

I think that is the attraction for me. Not the pain, but the joy and priveledge of being with a woman who is powerful enough to bring it.  


3/1/2024 11:28:07 AM


I didn't write this. It's from a blog I sometimes read.

"...His new role in life, when he becomes a partner to a Dominant woman, is to serve.

"Through his dedicated service he gains great clarity about what his life is all about, why he exists, what life is for. He exists to serve her. His goal in life is to obey and please. By meeting this goal, obeying her wishes and pleasing her, he reaches fulfilment in his life. His life has meaning."


1/30/2024 2:04:12 PM

My experience with chastity devices was uncomfortable and impractical. This led me to wonder whether the whole practice is even realistic. I had a specific and unpleasant issue with the ball trap, ring and cage type of device. I can discuss that if anyone has an interest. I wonder now if a device requiring a piercing would work better and be a realistic possibility for a device. Maybe the honor system is the only practical choice.


1/30/2024 2:03:21 PM

I am handy with tools, repairs and things. I am kind of a worker bee. Particularly in relationship situations I like to accomplish things to be of service and to please, whether directed by a woman in charge or self directed.
I am a good housekeeper too. I enjoy that for many reasons of my own, and even more so to impress or please the Head Of Household in an FLR


12/30/2023 1:20:56 PM

A few people here have let me know that my statements about healthy living and abstaining from drug and alcohol use come across as judgemental or disapproving. I certainly do not mean to convey that. I do not stand in judgement of others. I have been very fortunate in my health. The lifestyle choices I have made help me maintain that good health, a positive outlook, and a feeling that I am living a meaningful life. Again, I do not stand in judgement of others or their choices. This profile writing is sometimes difficult. How does one describe oneself in an effort to be attractive to others without seeming vain or self absorbed? Maybe I am not as good a writer as I think i am.  I have made an effort here to describe myself for someone looking for a connection with someone like me. I do understand that most things are not really about me, especially in the kind of dynamic that I seek. 


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Kenaza
 
 Age: 22
 Portland, Oregon