We are a fit, fun loving couple deeply in love and committed to each other. We are experienced in the lifestyle and enjoy meeting others for friendship and play that are relaxed and fun. We aren’t into games, fake people, or uptight people.

We enjoy a wide variety of activities with others and we like to mix both BDSM and sexual play. We are open minded and don’t judge anyone’s fetish or fantasy. There isn’t much we haven’t tried or enjoyed. We do play safe, meaning no fluid exchange without prior and regular testing. We are sane and consensual and will never cause any permanent damage. We respect our play partners as people, and while we can be quite dominant, there is always a safe word to stop play.

We have to be friends with our play partners first and foremost. We aren’t going to play with people that we don’t enjoy being around. We are completely discrete. We understand that most people have vanilla lives and many of our activities aren’t socially acceptable yet.

We live most of the year in St. Pete, and Summer/Fall in Missouri so we are interested in people in both areas. We also enjoy boating, camping, kayaking, live music, playing pool, campfires, good food, good wine, craft beer, and other relaxing activities.

If you do reach out to us, please don’t use one liners like “I’ll do anything to serve you, or “I want to play with you” or use the words “hot” and expect a response. Let us know what you are into and tell us a little about yourself. You should be intelligent, articulate, and honest. If we think we click together, we’ll arrange a no strings meet and greet to get to know each other.

We used to have another profile on here before that was more graphic and we were flooded with emails. We had the opportunity to meet some people, however we are looking for more substantial play partners. As a consequence, we have gotten quite picky and had to make a few rules.

1. We won’t have endless dialog about fantasies. It doesn’t take long to determine if we are compatible. If we are, let’s meet and see if we click. If not, we don’t need to talk any more.
2. We will only play with people that are local near us, or who are willing to travel to see us. We’re not going to travel a long distance for a first meeting.
3. If you make arrangements to meet and don’t show up, you are history. There are no second chances.
4. If you are rude or pushy, it won’t happen. This is particularly true for dominant guys who think they can top a domme. That isn’t happening.
5. We aren’t looking for any 24/7 play. We do have vanilla lives as well.
6. We do not want overly needy sub men that demand endless jerk off conversation. If this is your plan, please don’t even contact us.
7. We don’t want to talk to couples where the man is trying to get something to happen, but the woman isn’t sure. We don’t need to have a part in that relationship. On the other hand, we have no problem helping to train newbie couples if both are into it.
8. We aren’t into excessive picture exchange. We understand the need to verify that people are reasonably attractive and fit, but we aren’t into handing out pictures that people use for other purposes. If you’re serious, let’s meet and talk about it.
9. We are open to friendships without play, but we aren’t going to do it online. We don’t do cam sessions, or phone sessions etc.