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If youre about to ask me if I will consider a male submissive or slave, Ill save us both some time. The answer is no. Got it? Please dont write me as if you didnt read this. Youre only going to piss me off.
Hello. I am Master Hyde, or, to most of you, just plain old Hyde. I have been dominant most of my life, and kinky for close to 30 years. I pursued my interest secretly, reading porn and attempting to understand what the hell was wrong with me through most of my twenties. Then, in 1993, I came across some online chatrooms and I was finally introduced to people -- some online and some in real life -- who shared my interest and understood what it was I was seeking.
My early explorations included many trips to Hellfire, Paddles and The Vault in NYC. Of those, only Paddles still remains. My regular haunt was really Hellfire, when Lenny was running things, and when the dirt on the floors and general seediness of the place seemed to be an attraction for many. It wasnt always pretty, but fuck, it was real.
I have been active now in the Philadelphia community for about 20 years. I was a regular at the first Gate munches, and attended numerous other munches, including The Mission. PAST and a few that went by names I cant remember anymore.
When Behind The Scenes was operating in Philadelphia, I was head of security. I stood at the door most nights, greeting everyone who entered as well as monitoring the parking areas and making sure everyone could get to and from the cars safely. Behind The Scenes was the closest thing to a family that this local kink community has seen, and I still miss it.
I have been the fortunate owner of four slaves, and a dominant partner to many submissives. I have been mentor, trainer, protector, daddy, master, and owner. But I am still just a guy. Perhaps with more experience and blessing than some, but also with plenty of struggles. Ive made my share of mistakes, and I am sure I will make more before Im done. I try to learn from my mistakes, and I try to share what Ive learned with others. Thats why I have always been open to mentoring, teaching, and just generally sharing my knowledge and experience wherever and whenever possible.
Most recently that has been as a leader with SJPE and MAsT Edgewater Park. However, scheduling changes have made it difficult for me to attend meetings regularly. Family commitments occupy my time every other weekend or more, so I go to events and meetings when I can. Thats just as often as Id like it to be.
Speaking of family, I am a parent. Thats important to me. Family in general is important. Anyone who is involved in serving me full time will need to be comfortable meeting my family and being discreet in front of them, especially the children. You will be my slave at all time, but when family is around, some aspects of our relationship must be kept private.
My other interests include Philadelphia sports teams, especially the Eagles. I enjoy binge watching TV shows like Black Sails, or House of Cards, or Handmaidens Tale. I also love to listen to live music. I have several musician friends, and I was a musician myself in a er life. I havent played in years, but I love going out to hear friends and other talented musicians per any chance I get. Mostly local acts and other artists who dont get 100 a ticket to play the Wells Fargo center. Im too old and too broke to be dropping that kind of change on concerts now. -laughs-
Politically, Im a progressive. I was a staunch supporter of Bernie Sanders, and I volunteered for his campaign. If you support Donald Trump or the Republican Party as it is currently ed, I warn you, we are not going to get along.
If you want to chat, by all means send me a message. Please try and start a conversation, though. Random messages that say hi and not much else are a mystery to me. If youre not trying to sleep with me, then at least tell me why youre writing.
Im up for a conversation on lot of topics, but I do want you to contribute something more than just hello. Thats even more important if you want to add me as a friend. Not all of my friends are folks I know in real life, but all of them are folks I know, or folks who have shared enough with me to find a common interest. Just us being on the same kinky web site isnt really much to go on.
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I enjoy chatting very much, and I would love to have a conversation with you that may or may not lead to more sexy things. If you're just looking to ask questions, or you want to flirt, it's cool. I'd love to chat with you. But, sadly. CS chat doesn't like me anymore. So, if you'd like to chat, please send me your Skype or Google Hangouts handle. I won't bite unless you ask me to. :) |
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How many folks here already knew that you can click on the "interests" here and get a pop up window with a brief deion of the interest that a member has listed. Not sure about something like needle play or foot worship? Just click and learn. I'm criticiszing this site all the time because mostly it's crap... but this is pretty cool.
Am I like the last person here to realize this? LOL |
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Some of you need to learn how to write. 59 commas in one sentence is just fucking ridiculous. |
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I'm getting a little tired of this web site showing me the bright "new messages" button on my menu, only for there to be no new messages when I go to my inbox. Happening fairly often now when I'm reading some people's profiles.
Is anyone else experiencing this same glitch? |
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I'm seriously considering implementing a rule that I won't do hypnosis until the woman can verify on cam or in person. No, I don't need you to get naked or do something Compromising on camera. It's just that seeing your face and hearing your voice as we interact in real time is the one thing I can trust as proof you are who you say you are. |
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I'm currently interested in finding an online arrangement with someone who is real, sincere, and willing to verify either through voice, pictures, or video. Also, you need to have a healthy interest in hypnosis, humiliation, and orgasm control. I don't care if you're married, and I'm not looking for an exclusive arrangement, but I do want ongoing control over some aspects of your life. I'm experienced with hypnosis, both in person and online, so if this interests you, please get in touch.
** This does not in any way mean I'm not interested in real life meetings. If you're local and you aren't expecting to move in right away, by all means we should meet up and get to know each other. But this arrangement is something I've enjoyed in the past, and I would like to explore it again with the right person. |
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Happy birthday to me. Who wants to take 52 spanks for (from) me? |
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My writing skills are being questioned by a girl who never uses punctuation and can't send an email with more than ten words at a time. Usually, at least two of those ten words are spelled wrong, but of course it's my English that "is not sound" according to her.
Excuse me while I laugh hysterically. |
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The spammers and the form letters continue. You have to admire their consistency at least. I got one tonight telling me she read my profile and how wonderful she thought I was and how she was sure had a long and wonderful relationship ahead of us if I would only contact her at her Yahoo email address.
I was in a mood, so I wrote back and I ripped her a new asshole for sending me such an obvious spam message that made it clear to me she didn't actually read my profile.
Being consistent as she is, she didn't read my reply either. I got a second message from her saying "Thank you for the great reply" and again asking me to write her at the Yahoo email address.
Face. Palm. |
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I won't reply to form letters. I can tell when you haven't read my profile, and even more so when you have absolutely nothing to say about yourself except to tell me that you are happy to meet me and you are sure we will have a wonderful relationship. Does ANYONE actually fall for that nonsense? |
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I am sooo tired of all the accounts popping up on here with the invitation "please find my profile on blanketyblank.com" There's enough garbage on this site. If you're just here to promote your fucking website, please, just stop. |
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I don't know what's worse. All of the fake accounts on this site, or the fake accounts that people make to tell us about the fake accounts on this site. It's not like you're telling us anything new. Anyone who's been around here a while knows that a large percentage of profiles here (especially ones of pretty 20-somethings looking to become instant slaves) are total fiction. I mean, if you really believe that beautiful girls come on here, ready to relocate and start new lives serving men they never met, just as soon as someone sends them a bit of money for relocation expenses... well, there's just no hope for you.
I have often posted tips here about how to spot some of the fakes, but the folks I'm talking about are the ones who encounter "willingslave" and then create a "willingslave2" account just to tell us how "willingslave" didn't fulfill their wildest fantasies and she must be fake, so now the guy who got burnt created another fake account just to publicly shame someone who doesn't even exist.
There's something pathological about that, don't you think? |
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Public Service Announcement! Always schedule your first meetings at a place with great food. Because then when you get stood up, it's not a total loss. |
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Finding myself in Concord North Carolina for the rest of the day with nothing to do. I had plans with someone, but they fell through. Does anyone want to meet up and hang out? No pressure. Low expectations. Just someone to watch a movie with, or go to Dave & Busters at Concord Mills Mall. I'm here all day. Don't let me spend it alone.
This is for Saturday, February 20th only. I will be going back home to Philadelphia tomorrow. |
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The account using the name "emmaslv" is fake. Yes, there really is a slave named emma who lives in San Antonio, but the profile here does not belong to her. I know, I have talked to emma and confirmed it. Why someone on here is trying to impersonate her, I do not know. Feel free to join the decent people who stand for honesty, and report "emmaslv" so we can get the account closed. |
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Public Service Announcement: DO NOT click on any links claiming to contain nude photos or hot video here. These are often just a scam intended to get you to sign up for porn site or worse, to infect your computer with malware. You have been warned. |
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Why are there so many copycat profiles created here to call attention to someone who another user decides is "fake?" Most of us already know there are a lot of people on this site who are less than honest, who will say they want to meet, but won't follow through, who use photos that don't belong to them.
If you feel a need a create a new profile to advertise this to everyone, you are saying a lot more about yourself than you about the "fake" that you think you're exposing. You must be a sad spiteful person to put so much effort into getting your revenge on a stranger from the Internet. It's more effective to report them and move on with your life.
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If you need to shout IN CAPITAL LETTERS how real you are... you probably aren't.
Also, I need to add this. If you attended a secret school where girls are sent "from all over the world" for slave training. Please. Stop. You're trying way to hard to impress me. |
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New Orleans was amazing. If I didn't have my family here in PA and NJ, I think I would strongly consider moving to New Orleans. I absolutely loved it there. Live music everywhere, friendly people, and delicious food. What's not to love?
My friend and I marched in a second line. That was a blast. She also showed me around the French Quarter, and Treme, and several other neighborhoods. Bourbon Street is highly overrated, unless you're a college kid looking for the world's largest frat party. If that's the case, Bourbon Street is where it's at.
I had a much better time in other places, though. Vaughan's Lounge was a standout. A neighborhood bar, away from the tourist stuff, that was absolutely jumping on Thursday night with people celebrating the Saints win over Atlanta. The band playing that night was great, and everyone was having a fabulous time.
We also ate every kind of delicious New Orleans food, from gumbo to shrimp etoufee to jambalaya to chargrilled oysters, and barbecue as well.
Oh, I also had sweet potato ice cream. Now, that's something I won't soon forget. Yum!
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What do ALL of theses slaves have in common? They ALL live overseas, but the choose a location here in the USA to attract American masters. They are ALL experienced slaves with few or no limits. The are ALL willing to relocate. They ALL expect you to pay for their relocation. And the kicker? NONE OF THEM have a webcam to verify their identity.
Isn't that interesting? Every single profile I find on here that claims to be a trained, experienced slave, wishing for a new master to help them relocate to the USA claims to NOT have a webcam. Isn't that convenient for them? I mean, why bother going on cam to verify if you're really talking to that beautiful woman in the photos? It's not as if you could be sending your money to some romance scammer in Nigeria... oh, wait.
Troll at your own risk, gentleman. Most of the profiles on this website are completely false. You have to be diligent and have very good instincts to find the real people here. Hint, the ones who protest the most about being real and honest are the ones most likely hoping to take advantage of you. |
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I'm going to New Orleans in two weeks for the Crescent City Blues &BBQ Festival. I'm psyched to finally be visiting this city that I have loved from afar. I can't wait to take in all of the sights and sounds, as well as the TASTES (I love Cajun food).
Is there anyone from New Orleans who wants to meet up and maybe give me a tour of the city? I want to visit the clubs and restaurants that the locals love, as opposed to the ones that just draw a ton of tourists. |
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Since when do people "get to know each other" by exchanging dirty pictures? Seriously, people. That is NOT how it works. Do you think I'm fucking stupid? You can't take 5 minutes to read my profile, and you aren't even interested in seeing the photos of myself that I shared there, but you want to get on Yahoo and have me send you dirty pictures that I found on the Internet?
No, no, no. This is NOT how young slavegirls learn about their potential masters. This is how wankers and wannbes get strangers to send them dirty pictures. Jesus fucking christ, go find your own damned pictures. There are about a million web sites, many of them free, where you can look at all the naughty pictures you will ever want to see. |
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Here is a free tip for everyone. If you offer to send "proof" pictures of you holding a sign, please make sure the sign is in your own handwriting, and not a computer font that looks like handwriting. |
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Since I have been asked, yes. The girl and the cage are mine. The girl is a slave in training. She cleans my home, and in exchange, I am teaching her how to serve. She sleeps in my cage when she stays the night. Both girl and cage are available for others to use at my discretion. |
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I will in New Orleans for the Crescent City Blues & BBQ Festival in mid-October. I would love to meet someone while I'm there. Maybe you can show me some sights in New Orleans. I'm a first time visitor who has long admired the culture. So, I would really welcome a local's perspective on places to eat and places to hear music that represent the true New Orleans spirit, as opposed to the tourist traps that package it in a cheesy way for out of towners.
I do have a friend travelling with me. She's not my partner, and we have separate rooms, but she is aware and approving of my kinky lifestyle. Truth be told, she and I have been play partners in the past, but that was many years ago. She is in a committed relationship, and we long ago stopped sleeping and playing with each other. She will be totally cool with your presence, and happy to let us have some fun together if we choose. |
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As I have already mentioned in my profile. I practice polyamory. I am currently training a young woman for service. I am still seeking a companion/slave/partner. If you have a problem with your master training other slaves or receiving service from someone who isn't you, we are probably not compatible. If you have questions, please feel free to ask them. |
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In the last couple of weeks, I have had had at least 3 messages that I thought I sent to someone go completely missing, as if I never sent them at all. All 3 were replies to messages that I received. Some of them were quite long and involved, and I was very annoyed to come back to the site later and find no record of the message that I thought I had sent out.
Is anyone else having this problem, or I am just crazy? |
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Wow. Blocked before I could even send the first message. That's a new one. Must be something really terrible about me that someone would block me before I could even say hello. -laughs- |
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Ladies, you cannot ride this ride if you have more than five activities on your "hard limits" list. Are we clear on that? |
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Has anyone else noticed how slow Collarspace has been lately? Loading new pages takes forever and day. Sometimes, I can't connect at all, and just get error pages instead. I wish someone would get the technical stuff straightened out here. |
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Is it just me, or has anyone else noticed a recent spike in the number of new profiles from women who are submissive and extremely ticklish? Every day I see new members creating profiles that emphasize tickling. Most of the profiles feature similar background stories, mentioning children or family members who tickle them frequently.
If I didn't know better (and I don't!), I would say there's one very eager tickling enthusiast who is determined to find people who share this particular ticking fantasy. In fact, I'm saying it. I see you out there. I don't know who you are, but I'm betting my lunch that you are behind most of these new tickling profiles. |
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People, try and be a little more clever. If I can find all of your photos on a porn site, and your idea of getting to know each other is creating a series of fantasies, complete with pictures and detailed deions of what I'm going to do to you, then it's pretty fucking obvious that you aren't really who you say you are, and you have no intention of meeting anyone.
Those of us with real life experience know better. We see right through your thin disguise. Please stop wasting our time. If you want to role play your fantasy with someone, just be honest about it. I'm sure there are plenty of people here willing to role play with you. You don't have to lie about who you are. You aren't really fooling anyone. Not anyone who matters anyway. If the guy you're talking actually BELIEVES those pictures are yours, then he's just as inexperienced and clueless as you are. |
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Collarspace should a new selection under the "Report" function. We should be able to report people for being terminally stupid. I think we could clean this site up a lot if we just got rid of all the stupid people. :) |
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I was reading someone's profile and she was protesting, whining, complaining about men LOOKING AT HER PROFILE. Oh, the horrors. I don't know how she cant stand it. Clearly everyone should just ignore her profile, and not even look at it, unless they happen to be the kind of person she is seeking.
Listen up, everyone. She doesn't want you looking at her profile! So stop it! Clearly, we are all obligated to obey her command, right?
Yeah, I didn't think so either.
Update 5/4/15: she seems to have deleted her profile now. Probably because I was directing everyone to go look at it. -laughs- |
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I was reading someone's profile, and she begged for someone to humiliate and degrade her in any way that they pleased.
So, I laughed at how foolish she was, and I made her profile disappear.
I hope she reads this, and can appreciate how I degraded her to nothing. |
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If you fuck with me, I will send you glitter. LOL
http://shipyourenemiesglitter.com/ |
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Today is my birthday. Who wants to take my birthday spanks? :) |
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Happy New Year!
I turn 50 in a couple of days. Planning some fun and debauchery soon to celebrate surviving half a century on this planet. LOL |
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Wishing everyone a very merry Christmas. If you haven't had your season's beatings yet, look me up. I can probably help you with that. ;) |
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LMFAO! This video is so funny. I laughed uncontrollably.
http://motherless.com/A7E1F7E |
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I'm amused when I read a profile on here from someone who claims to be experienced, better than everyone else, and yet has only alive, walking on this earth for less time than I've been living the BDSM life. Do you really expect us to take you seriously when you are barely old enough to drink alchohol?
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I am going to give everyone some advice. This is good stuff, so listen up. If someone on this publishes their Email address or their IM username for Yahoo directly in their CS profile, they are absolutely without exception, running a scam. I promise you, I have contacted dozens of these people over time. Not a single one of them were who they claimed to be. Not one. So please, spare yourself the aggravation. Just skip to the next profile. If someone is that eager to communicate away from this site that they broadcast their personal contact info to everyone who can read their profile, they are NOT interested in meeting anyone. They are trying to reach a mass audience for their scam. Nothing more. Doubt me? Fine. But when it goes site, remember I told you here. |
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I was reading a profile today where a user claimed that her owner's cock was 17 inches long.
I wonder if "she" realizes her claim is several inches longer than the Guinness Book of World Records. LOL
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Who are these moronic beasts who berate a woman and call her disgusting names simply because she rejected their advances? I have been rejected more times than I like to admit, but I always take it like an adult. If one woman doesn't find me to be her ideal man, I am confident that there is someone else who does. |
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Is it just me, or does anyone else see a lot more profiles for overseas members when browsing CS on their cellphone? I notice this even when my settings on the PC are not filtered for distance. |
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I didn't get to Masque last night. I had some car trouble, and stayed home. Getting the car sorted out now, so I can still get to my friends house later and watch the football game. |
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Well, that's a new one. I think I just scared someone into leaving this site. She just signed up today. I sent her a message, a perfectly normal message, and she wrote back "Your name scares me." Then, she apparently closed her account.
I guess I'm amused, but I wish she had given me a chance to talk with her. If you are her, and you come back on this site, let's talk. It's just a name, and I'm really not evil. Just mischievous? Yes, I am probably some darker things that scare you, but I'm a responsible adult. I don't break my toys, because I like to play with them more than once. Ask me questions, talk to me. You'll find out that I'm a lot more than just a scary name. |
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I haven't updated this in a while, so here's the latest. My former slave has moved out and back to her home state. Life is starting to get back to normal for me, and I've been enjoying the peace and quiet of living alone once again.
Is anyone here going to Masque tomorrow night in Philly? If you are, let me know, and maybe we can meet up and talk in person. I enjoy online chat, but I think it's much easier to get to know someone face to face in the real world with other people around. I think you get a much better idea of who someone is that way. |
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My life will be a lot less complicated soon. I told my ex that she needs to move out by the end of September. She's already started packing. I'm looking forward to having my place to myself again. |
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Don't misunderstand me. I want a serious, committed relationship. I want to have someone I can come home to at night, someone with whom I can share my life AND my kinks. But I am a realist. I don't know you yet. You don't know me yet. It takes time to build that kind of relationship, and I am not going to rush into a lifetime commitment just because we both got sexually aroused together. When I say our relationship will be casual in the beginning, that's all I mean. The beginning. Because I don't wish to go from total strangers to committed life partners in less time than it takes to really get to know each other.
I've been there before. It doesn't work. I'm serious about finding a relationship that works, and I'm serious about taking incremental steps to get there. If you think that wanting to keep things casual in the beginning means I'm not looking for a real relationship, then we have a failure to communicate. Ask me if it's unclear. Don't just assume you know what I want, because most likely, you don't. |
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God help me, I'm bored and in need of a mental diversion this morning. Does anyone want to chat? |
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Ladies and gentleman, I introduce the exciting new Collarme game show, called...
YOU MIGHT BE A NIGERIAN SCAM ARTIST
The rules are simple. I'm going to give you some clues to help you determine if YOU are a Nigerian Scam Artist. Follow along and see how many of these apply to you.
1. Your profile says you live in California, but your zip code puts you within 100 miles of Philadelphia.
2. Your profile says you are six feet tall and you weigh 45 pounds.
3. Your (BDSM web site) profile says "I am honest and kind and seeking someone else who is honest and kind for marriage" but never mentions anything at all about you being submissive, dominant, or even remotely kinky.
4. You claim to be a deaf slave. Seriously, was their a "baby boom" for deaf slaves recently?
5. You are available for immediate relocation. In fact, your current boyfriend is kicking you out and you need a place to live by next Tuesday.
6. You expect someone who's never met you before to pay for the above relocation.
7. Your profile says African American, but your picture is of a blonde porn star.
8. Your profile says you're dominant, and I'm a dominant too, but you keep sending me form letters saying how interesting my profile is and how much you want to meet me and have babies with me.
9. When I ask you what in my profile was so interesting, your response is... oh, that's right, you have no response.
10. Your profile says "I am from Alabama, USA (or any other city/state)."
Here's a clue: Americans don't say that. We're mostly American-centric. There are more of us on this site than anyone else. So, we expect that everyone we meet is American unless we're told otherwise. If your profile says you're from New York, it's redundant to also tell me you were born in the USA.
So, there it is, folks. How did you score? One or two correct? You might be a Nigerian Scam Artist. Three or four correct? Chances are very good you're a Nigerian Scam Artist. Five or more? Holy Rip-Offs, Batman! You are most definitely a Nigerian Scam Artist. Please report your own profile immediately.
To all you winners out there, collect your prizes and GO HOME! It's bad enough dealing with flakes, wannabees and people who just can't make up their mind if they are ready to meet someone and do this for real. The last thing we need is liars, scam artists and thieves out here preying on the poor innocent perverts who are just trying to find another pervert to live happily ever after with.
We now return you to your regularly scheduled programming.
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I don't care if you are 26 and cute as a button. If your profile is one sentence, and it runs for 15 lines with multiple egregious spelling and grammatical errors, you're probably not the slave for me. Got it, girls?
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This capping nonsense is really getting out of hand. I just read this in a discussion thread on another site.
I follow the Gorean path of Owning a girl and that means... Owning? He capped "owning?" Please! It's bad enough that we have a
bunch deluded egomaniacs capping "Me, My, and Mine." It's annoying that
some people think "Master, Mistress, and Dominant" are proper nouns. I
get so tired translating "W/we and O/our" that I usually just click and
go to another page. But on top of that, now some people are
capitalizing VERBS? Shoot me now, please.
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You wouldn't think that here on Collarme, you'd get smartass emails from religious types criticizing you for not believing what they believe. You would be wrong. LOL
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I just wanted to add, if you noticed that I added you to my favorites and I haven't written yet, well... sometimes I just don't have time to write a kick-ass, grab your attention, introductory letter. I suppose I could cut and paste, but you don't like that, do you?
Anyway, I am NOT one of those dominants who thinks a submissive should not write first. If you want to talk to me, please write. I answer almost all messages, and if you write to me first, it's a good way to make sure I don't forget to write to you. :)
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Has anyone one noticed that many of the profiles insisting loudly that "I am real" are also some of the most superficial? You know the one I'm talking about. The profiles that show a beautiful young woman, half undressed, and one paragraph of text claiming "I am a real slave. I am ready to serve you for the rest of my life. I am honest. I hate liars and game players!"
I'm going to go out on a limb and say if you are real, I hope you have something more to share than this. I hope you can tell me a little bit more about yourself as a person, or even as a slave, if that's what you claim to be.
Otherwise, I'm going to think your profile is just a lazy attempt to attract as many people as possible for some purpose OTHER than actually meeting them in person and establishing a real relationship, master/slave or otherwise.
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| Age: 30 |
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