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Abstract---
We are a male (6ft2inch h38-w31-b39) and female (5ft7inch h38-w26-b38) couple that has been active in BDSM since the 1990s. (We both use this account so the pronouns are inconsistent, sorry) We are trim, healthy, happy, nonjudgmental, drama free. We exercise and eat healthy (vegi or vegan).
I (male half) pursued Shibari starting in high school and college, then moved to leather and then big heavy metal contraptions. We do latex a lot but far less than one would guess from the photos (trying to hide our identity). We have a rather abnormal D-s relationship that drifts to other dynamics when we find a playmate.
Our undergraduate and graduate studies were in the sciences but we love a breadth of topics... travel, outdoor recreation, science, music, some arts, politics, cooking. especially BDSM. The latter is not a topic we can mention with our normal circle of friends. So we are always looking for kink positive people to visit with. Shoot us a message.
We feel very lucky to be fluid bonded to a close friend and lover who is otherwise monogamous with her wife. Sadly, we only get to play with her a couple months out of each year. So we are passively looking for an additional playmate, life-partner or friend with benefits.

Wanted Section---

WANTED- Local female with an ethereal or unique or mediocre singing voice for ambientacoustic instrumentalpost-production-rock style recording. Also for acoustic recording that might never be published, simply sending ideas to a friends band.
WANTED- Female fiction or kinkysifi author wanting to collaborate.
WANTED- Model or crafting buddy (female) who likes creating, modeling, inventing or testing novel metal, leather, rubber, latex, rope, wood and weird intimate bondage. BIG plus if you can teach us to take better photos.
WANTED- female playmate or FWB (local or long distance)
WANTED- female platonic massage swap partner
WANTED- sailing, skiboarding, mt biking and climbing partner
WANTED- non-judgmental vegan or vegi potluck partner
NOTE----We hate to sound non-inclusive, but we really are not agreeable meeting or playing with males, trans or previously male people. Sorry, just what we are agreeable with at this time.

About---
Our graduate and undergraduate degrees are in the sciences. Both our work has been mostly non-profit work where we feel we are improving the world (while making almost no money). We moved to Colorado in 2001 to pursue our love of skiing, rock climbing, paddling, mountain biking, backpacking, and a bunch of other outdoor sports too specific to list publicly if wanting to stay anonymous. Also for school.
Music used to be a big part of my (male half) life and I no longer have time for it... someday. A large part of my (male half) free time is devoted to kinky leather working, kinky metal working, building BDSM furniture and contraptions and making adult toys. A bit of time is spent making metal, leather rubber bondage gear. Too much and not nearly enough time is spent playing.
Where as I (female half) enjoy more domestic functions, cooking, gardening and reading. I love Scifi. I dont read romance because quite frankly, I get plenty of that.

Kink is a pain in the butt---
It really does control my life. I (male half) honestly hate the expense and storage needed to maintain my love of latex, leather bondage, metal bondage, dungeon furniture, etc. I wish 90 percent of my sex drive would just disappear because my profession(s), family, friends, outdoor recreation, travel and non-kinky crafts are likely more productive. Hurting people and doing sick things with sick s is just a drive that I can not get rid of. Admittedly... it is awfully fun.
Whereas I (female half) feel it is a great release and love getting to be a dominant bitch to our playmates, I love that i get both cock and pussy, I love the new and exciting contraptions he (male half) invents. But yes, I do wish he had a libido that was more down to earth. I never saw myself as switchy but I surely change from domme to sub depending on the person or the activity (i.e. bondage vs predicament bondage vs humiliation vs massage)


Hobbies---

NORMAL PEOPLE STUFF-- Outdoor recreation, travel, cooking (often spicy ethnic dishes, vegetarian, local, organic), reading, gardening, hiking, mt. biking, climbing, SCUBA, paddling, kiteboarding, canyoneering, sailing, skiing, back country snow boarding, making music, wood work, metal work, knitting...

SEXY STUFF-- Chiefly Leather Bondage, metal bondage, rubber bondage, latex fetish and most any BDSM activities. Some nonmainstream rope. If it is in our fetish list it is something we do (or did) regularly, and then a bunch not on the list. We maintain a regular but evolving dom-sub relationship with dresscode and quotas MOST of the time (travel and house guests limit this). SOME of the time it is less structured with simply trying new things and maximizing fun as the goal. We enjoy introducing people to new kinky things especially when it scares them and makes them wet. Having new people involved has helped us make time for play and has really added new dimensions to our kinky shenanigans. We have a very NCish CNC relationship. BUT, after you have loved someone for 20 years it is hard to fake a dynamic of stranger danger or rape play. So, it is nice to include others.

Crafting--I spend too much time making leather and rubber bondage gear, metal bondage gear, covert bondage furniture of wood and metal and latex fetishbondage wear. I am kinda at a point where I will not improve without new challenges, new insight or new ideas from interaction with others interested in these hobbies, so please, speak up. Also, I have several bondage product business plans that will never happen unless someone is willing to take over where I stopped. I am too busy. Most RD, tooling and C.B.A. is done.

Physical Deion---
I like it when people include this but for anonymity reasons just email us with questions. In brief, (or when not wearing briefs), we are fit and thin but not like beanpole skinny, full hair on head, shaved or epilated down low. We exercise and eat healthy. Nonsmoking, no drugs, disease free. email for details.


Making Contact and Meeting both Platonic and Intimate---
It is really nice to have adult conversation about kinky and non-kinky things with like and unlike minded people. So if in the NoCo area and wanting to talk over coffee or brunch please shoot us a message. We love chatting with people who enjoy our kinks or do things we have not yet tried. But we also enjoy introducing people to the sport(s) or sharing what we know with people just starting out. And anything in between.

We are passively seeking a FWB, lover, lifepartner or playmate. Our marriage is super stable, stable enough not to feel threatened by including others. Sable enough for the misses to beg the husband to please find a 3rd and a 4tf because your sex drive is too much. We hate to draw attention to our age but, after being together for 2 decades things need spicing up. Some of the best times of our life was when we were blessed with a playmate or life partner. To get to try new things and watch new dynamics take shape. It is hard to articulate what we mean by that.... so i guess strike up some correspondence and we will try to explain.

We are lucky to have a close friend and lover who means the world to us. Sadly we only see her a couple months out of the year. So, we are looking for a more frequent play partner, life partner, lover, or friend with benefits.

Not just locals - We have hosted a couple long distance encounters and had a long distance relationship. These are really hard, but it also was really fun to plan and have a special visit to look forward to. We would not be opposed to this again.

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MissDaisy0021
 
 Age: 33
 Apple valley, California