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Home, home again. I've returned to my adopted homeland. I have no idea what I'm looking for, but I'm quite certain I'll find it nonetheless. Do let me know if you have any idea what I'm on about...

For me as a person, I'm an expat, writer, English teacher, and Military History student.

Traveling is one of my great passions; it allows you to meet new people with new outlooks and new cultural backgrounds on a daily basis, and I'm convinced there are few joys in life greater than that. I also have an abiding love of art, music, film, literature, philosophy, and of course history. Economics and politics are bad habits I'm trying to break, with only limited success.

My life philosophy, broadly, is rational hedonism - I seek pleasure and avoid pain with an eye to the long term. My morality is principally utilitarian with elements of more traditional systems. My ethical framework for BDSM is most definitely RACK rather than SSC. I will keep you safe, but I don't believe that the conventional definitions set out by the BDSM body politic are the word of God. Contractualism and experience are sufficient safeguard.

In short, I'm a unique-like-everybody-else artsy capitalist pleasure-seeking cynical free thinker seeking someone I haven't met and something I haven't seen.

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For me as a Dom, I'm fairly experienced and have a propensity for committed M/s and casual D/s. My primary interest, both sexually and in life generally, is new experiences. I have a tendency to go through phases of highly specific interest. At the moment I am very interested in asexual interrogation play, which I have done before, and playing bull for a cuck couple, which I have not.

I'm quite sadistic, exceptionally interested in the internal workings of the submissive mind, and intensely fascinated in the cause and effect of even my smallest actions towards a given submissive.

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Above all else, unique and challenging personalities and viewpoints are what draw me in and bring me closer to a person. If you want to get to know me better, whether for play or just as friends, send me a message - the traditionalist belief in the female (or sub, for that matter) as pursued and the male as pursuer was outdated when it was formed. Just to be clear and fair up front, I'm not seeking male partners at this stage. It's nothing against anyone in particular, that side of me is just entirely dormant at the moment.

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 Submissive, Age:  45
 Bella Vista, Arkansas
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