Although I am a very open minded person there are certain things that I just find creepy. For example asking me to sell you things that I have worn...CREEPY...I won't even reply to you. Second CREEPY thing of the day...when you tell me that you would love to watch me doing something. I don't know you so you wanting to watch me doing something involved in this lifestyle is just CREEPY and I won't reply to that.

The men on this site need to stop being creeps...you might think it is appealing but it is NOT. The creepiness is coming from doms and subs.

Finally, those doms out there who message me asking why I am here if I am taken perhaps you should read my profile again. I'm here seeking a female submissive to share with my Master...it is stated pretty damn clearly in my profile. You asking that question just makes you look like a fucking idiot.

I have a sinus infection that seems to want to stay. I developed a severe headache almost migraine level yesterday evening. Certainly puts a dampener on what I desire to do.

I will be so happy once this nasty lil cold is gone. I have been swinging back and forth between wanting to be up and going and just wanting to curl up and be left alone.  But I push on through the days accomplishing what I can before I just curl up and close out everything.

I am excited as in about a week I will be testing for a belt promotion in my karate class...WOOHOO!!! Hopefully I will have enough energy to make it through class this week and to testing next Monday.

Enjoying a lazy birthday Sunday at home...kicked back on the couch watching Jackie Chan movies.  I'm laughing so much....not only is he a great martial artist but he is a great comedian as well.

What a wonderful surprise...I came home to find my Husband/Master had prepared me dinner...it's my birthday weekend. Then I also discovered that he had taken various photos that had been taken over the years and placed them in frames to decorate the walls. It was such a sweet gift.

I love him so much...he completes me. He pampers me at every opportunity he has. But he also knows how to give me the control over me and feeling of being so vulnerable yet still being a strong woman as well. We are such a perfect match that if we couldn't live our lifestyle we would still be a very perfectly matched couple as we have everything that we need to be together. We are more then sex, more then Ds...we are best friends.

I was very surprised just now as I was reading my messages. Most men who contact me want more then what I can offer since I am married to my Master. I normally get called all types of names...and told how I'm not real since I just won't drop to my knees and serve any "Dom" that comes my way. The other I hear a lot is how he could treat me so much better then my Husband/Master can...telling me how weak he is when they know nothing of us.  Tonight I had a very opposite experience. I appreciate when others are attracted to me but you really earn respect when I inform you that I am taken and only serve my Husband. I had a very short conversation with a person that I have to say is a gentleman. Although I do not know him very well...he had eventually asked if I'm allowed to pleasure others in the life style. The answer is no...I told him I only serve my Husband and I have no desire to serve others. Instead of getting the expect nasty response he gave me a simple ok.  Thank you JoeBravo6 for being so polite when so many are rude.

The stupidity on this site never ceases to amaze me.  Today it is a so called dom named htrdlsc 

who told me my name is faggy. Does he really think insulting others who don't care what he thinks will make him a real dom. Plus why does he think he has a right to insult another person's userid when he himself has only a string of random letters.  I'm certain he wouldn't know a true Ds relationship if it smacked him right in the face.

But it is fine...you can insult a handle all you want loser...it will never gain you any respect...I will never care about what you think. Though perhaps I should thank you for making me laugh at someone who is stupid...and in case you don't realize it I am speaking about you htrdlsc.

Actually truth be known, I'm certain he just loved what he saw and wished he had meet me before my Master did. So his throwing out insults is probably just his way of showing jealousy because he sees something he wants and will NEVER be able to have.

Blah...I'm sick today.  Major migraine and sinus pressure to start off my morning. Thankfully the meds have got rid of the migraine for now. My loving Master/Husband who recently had knee surgery is now taking care of me.  I was so shaky when I came downstairs to empty the dishwasher that I thought I was going to drop to the floor. Now I'm relaxing on the couch while he fixes me breakfast.

Listen little boys...those so called dominants who can't respect the fact that I am taken...you really need to leave all BDSM sites as you are not a true Dominant. You boys are nothing but pathetic losers who think that you can treat women like shit and catch yourself something to mistreat.  All your degrading little remarks do not work...ESPECIALLY with myself. Even if I was available I would not be interested in the likes of a boy who starts out with calling me names or trying to boss me around immediately. Since I am collared and even more so...MARRIED to my Master you don't even have a snowball's chance in hell.  Trying to tell me that MY Master is weak will never work...for you do not know him and you certainly have never dealt with his strength. He is more Dominant then you ever could dream of being. Master are I are perfect together....we challenge each other in just the right ways, we compliment and complete each other. We are just as content in just being able to be in each other arms as we are in expressing our love and trust when in a scene. We can read each other very well...sometimes so well that it creeps people out.

You little boys know exactly who I am talking to because you are finding this highly insulting while all the other Dominants are laughing at you. You are never going to have a meaningful relationship much less a satisfying Ds relationship when you mistreat and disrespect a woman as you do. Submissive women still want the same thing out of men as your average woman does. We desire a man to get to know us, care about us, understand that we have needs and desires as well. We need to know that the Dominant that we are with would still love and take care of us even if something would happen that would make it impossible for us to continue in a Ds lifestyle.

You little boys need to understand that even those submissives who desire to be broken down and rebuilt want a dominant who will still protect and care for them...a lot of trust is put into letting go so completely. Those who want to be degraded still need to know that the person they are trusting is watching out for their safety. A submissive can not let go unless they completely trust their dominant partner.

This can actually go to the little girls as well who think you can just start bossing us around as well. Get off of your high horse and come back to reality....we are ALL equal until a submissive gives that gift to the Dominant.

coming down the final stretch...just about ready to head to my family for Christmas weekend. Dishes done, trash out, yard cleaned up from the dogs, dogs to the vet, finished up 99% of my carpet cleaning...just a couple stairs left which can wait till we get home. Now to shower, finish packing and double check some things before leaving. Still have over tasks to do when we get home but this is the best we've been right before Christmas...just 3 or 4 gifts left to wrap...woohoo!!!

So I will not be checking my mail here until we get home. Have a great Holiday!!!

Ladies, watch out for mmonylomax

he is a fake. He disrespects women...he also disrespects when a woman is owned and Married.

Apologies to everyone who has sent me messages recently. Master had surgery this week and has needed the majority of my time to take care of him. Spent the first day at the hospital while he was having surgery then spent all day yesterday taking care of him almost non-stop as he was extremely sore. Today I had some free time from tending to him as he was moving about better so I spent that catching up on a few chores...so far behind but at least I have a good reason.

I am so sore...I do not believe there is a part of me that does not hurt. A few weeks ago I dislocated my toe and have not been able to wear my heels. Then yesterday Master picked up new tile for our kitchen...we spent last night and then all of today pulling up the old tile and putting down the new. I actually did a large portion of that work while Master handled the cutting of all the tile. Now we just have to select the new color, patch a couple of place that our dogs damaged on the wall then we can repaint our kitchen as well.  So now my knees hurt, my shoulders are throbbing, I have blisters on my hands, and the palms of my hands feel like they are bruised. I might be lucky to walk to my car Monday morning just so I can get to work.

Ok, well the phoney decided to be offensive after I told him that he should really read a profile before asking someone to be with him. Following is his response which just really goes to show that he is not a real dominant, he doesn't care, he doesn't listen. So if you are a new submissive or slave please do NOT consider being with this phoney for your own safety. Now that being said, I'm not going to block the pathetic person...as that is not my way. Blocking really doesn't help much because if a jerk wants to continue being rude they have ways around it.

From: Mrdominant3

Dated: 9/13/12 6:39 AM

Bla bla stupid cunt

I just have to laugh at people who don't take time to read...not only does it state in my profile I'm taken and not only am I taken I'm MARRIED to my Master. Then on top of that on my profile picture it clearly states "Property of Master Enforcer"

So I get home today check my messages and this is in my inbox:

          Would you consider serving a dominant man in a poly house? I am seeking an alpha slave that is able to run the house and train/manage slaves? How hardcore, sadistic and taboo can you be? Would you like to be an alpha slave? Can you be cruel and/or abussive to other females? I am seeking a slave with few or no limits that would enjoy managing, training and using other females for my amusement and pleasure. As my alpha, you would be my slave with benefits. :)

Now how lazy do you have to be to miss the Property of Master Enforcer that is on my photo...after all he probably decided to message me based upon my photo. But it certainly does not tell me that this is a dominant that I would want to be with and I would not recommend others to be with...if he can't be bothered to pay attention then how can take care of a submissive, slave, or a switch.   It also seems he does not know the difference between Switch and slave...even an alpha slave is not a switch.

I also can't help to think...why is he looking for an alpha slave...if he already has a house of slave that he is training why not promote one of them into the position.

 My final rant is when he sent me this it was not even a personalized message but just a cut and past of most of his profile. He left out just a bit from the beginning and the end of his profile.

 I will be respectful enough at this time to not disclose his username here but if he misbehaves after reading my response telling him no and that he needs to read before sending messages then I will disclose his user identity. As switch with many years of experience I find it to be my duty to place information out there for others...especially newer members to the lifestyle...so they know who to steer clear of.

Had a wonderful weekend. Master and I spent it down at the lake house. We spent time out on the boat. It's so nice to just get away from everything at times.

I am even more tied to my Master. We got married Friday....we are very happy together...we are, however, still looking for another female to bring into our happy family

We are still seeking a girl to join us in our home. We are open to a wide range of age, experience or appearances but you must be serious about this life. You must be willing to work outside the home ... we only ask for contribution to household expenses as there is no free ride... the rest of your income is yours for spending and saving.  We have a wide range of interests...some that we have explored and others that we still desire to explore. Master treats others with the utmost respect...he believes in making his submissive(s) into better people. He encourages learning...be it going to college or expanding your knowledge in hobbies (ie for me he wants me to return to college, he's supportive of my quilting and my desire for cake decorating)...he also is willing to allow me to explore my domme side when we find the right woman to join us.

How sad...my vacation is over. I spent most of it cleaning. Today I broke my nail...in fact broke it so bad that Master felt awful for me. I trimmed back the nail but it's going to be weeks before it grows out enough for me to trim off the broken part. Broke the nail all the way into the quick so my finger was bleeding under the nail.  I'm not happy about it especially since I broke a different nail earlier in the week though thankful it wasn't a break in the quick.  So sadly, down two nails, one extreme break, I had to trim all my nails back...I was probably about 1/2 inch past my finger tips with my own natural nails. Time to start again....guess the back scratches will not be as nice.

I can't believe how extremely rude people are on this site. You send a message and no response. If you are not interested you could at least send a polite No thank you.  I understand that their are childish men on here who will have a temper tantrum when you turn them down but that is what the block feature is for.  While others talk about meeting but when you start conversing about meeting they just disappear. I have meet a few that go through with meeting but then after meeting they are never to be heard from again.

That being said I know that not everyone is going to be a perfect match but it would also be nice to make new friends who are into the lifestyle no matter what level of your involvement. 

So excited we got a new toy today...going to start playing with electrical play. I had an introduction to it over a decade ago except it was with an uncaring dom. Instead of working me into it he went to an extreme before I was ready. I am finally ready to venture into that field again. This really says something about the Master I am with. He has not pushed me to this he has always been there for me and I am willing to try something that I hated at one time to see if I enjoy it now.

How far do you want to go in being a pet??? Do you want to be kept in a cage...I have a cage...I'll keep you in the basement. Do you just want to be kept in a small space...we have the perfect spot for that. Do you prefer a bed we can manage that as well. All of your living conditions will be negotiated before they are implemented. Don't expect a free ride...you will earn your keep. Are you a lesbian  or bisexual who prefers women over men...we can accommodate you as well. If it is in your heart to serve you will get worked up about tending to things for my man then getting to be intimately physical with me. You will be treasured and loved...perhaps you will be my little girl. 

Just opened up our new spreader bars...yum....I can hardly wait to be gagged and bound then "tortured". Of course I would love to have a delicious girl here to restrain and dish out some loving torture upon her while Master gets to watch and take photos.  Hmmm perhaps tomorrow I should clean on the basement so we can actually go down stairs and play...I think the bowflex would work perfect to keep me in an upright vulnerable position.

If you are going to send me a friend request you need to have at least exchanged some mail on here a few times. I don't accept random friend requests.

Was just thinking...could be interesting to take on a lesbian submissive or slave.  Perhaps one that is a border line lesbian...willing to please a man but doesn't always find it pleasing to herself...but the need to serve in this type of submissive or slave would be stronger then her desire to only be with a female. Of course if we brought in a woman like this her rewards would certainly be getting to have her sexual desires fulfilled by me. Perhaps a woman who would enjoy the humiliation of having to please a male before being allowed to enjoy her own desires.  Perhaps this submissive or slave would belong to me with the understanding that I would let my partner use her for my own enjoyment as well.

Currently seeking the one girl who would become ours. How I dream of the day of finding that one girl who would fit one of my idea.

Being that I am a switch our relationship would not be the typical Mistress and sub or the typical sisters. I would be the First Girl in charge of making sure that Master gets what he wants...and that I get what I want as I would also be Mistress. Our girl would have to accept that I submit to Master and not think of me any less just because I enjoy losing control to my man. My perfect girl would also end up being a live-in situation...so she is always available...she would stick to the story of housekeeper / roommate when interacting with our friends, neighbors and family. She would know that out in public she would never be seen as Master's love...especially when we are where we live...perhaps if we are on vacation someplace where no one knows us you would receive some PDA. As my sister and sub you would be able to get a widely varying range of activities with me. This would go from pleasing me....be it by you just pampering me..to us being bound helplessly together....to me binding you and using you as I please...or you pleasing me at Master's direction. In everyday life you would be taking on some of the household chores lightening my burden at home...which would be greatly helpful since I have taken on the task of trying to keep the lawn mowed as well. Perhaps you would be doing the dusting, vacuuming, trash, and dishes, while I keep up with the laundry, grocery shopping, cooking, and the yard. So don't think that you would join our family and have a free ride...you might think of yourself as a princess...but only if you take care of your responsibilities will you be treated as such.

Wow...this search would be so much easier if we were in deed looking for a boy. I seem to get tons of messages concerning men wanting to be my play thing. Sometimes I do wonder what it would be like to have a strong man bending to my will...giving me my every desire. What would it be like to come home and perhaps find my men just waiting to grovel at my feet...walking in and having a perfectly clean house that I didn't have to clean. A glass of ice tea waiting for me at my lounger ...my after work snack..grapes and cheese prettily placed on a plate. My man then giving me a loving foot massage while my other man finishes preparing my meal. Looking out my window to seeing a perfectly manicured yard and flower bed that I didn't break a nail trying to take care of. Being able to enjoy dinner and then walk away from the table not worrying about my plate because I know one of my men would clear it for me. Then descending into the basement...or perhaps I would have a nice attic that would be my play room...or perhaps both would be available. Or perhaps I live out in the country enough to have a secluded plot of land where I can take my men outside for fun...maybe they would be ponyboys. My men quickly hurrying to join me not knowing if I'm going to be a sweet and loving Mistress or the cruel sadistic Mistress. Perhaps I would torment them...dress them up in "girly" clothes seeing them struggle with their masculinity and being in frilly lace. Or dress them up in a school uniform and test their knowledge...if they get the answer wrong who knows what the discipline would be. If they answer correctly ohh what sweet reward they might receive.

Anyways now I'm bring out that desire in myself...why would I torture myself in this way. I am an owned girl ... Master does not desire a male sub so his will is my decision. But guess you can't blame a person for fantasizing.

But the funny thing is how much I have changed over the years...at one point I use to believe in only men only being my equal or superior...but know I can see myself being in control over a man who willingly gave himself to me. Of course at one point I only thought of myself as a submissive and slowly the desire to be in control emerged. I can never see myself not having my submissive side...I enjoy being bond and helpless too much to give that up. I love the feeling of being blindfolded and not knowing what is happening...I love the kiss of the flogger, the pull of the hair. But I am learning that I want it all.

Ohh how nice it would be to find a sister to come live with us. With another to help me with household chores we could be done with that task quicker and to more exciting play time. I have been in a poly before and find that I'm really craving such again. I miss eating out a girl til she comes then continuing on forcing her to be so overwhelmed in her orgasm that she is easily "manipulated" to do what I so desire. Would love to have a sister that I can do the girly things with that Master isn't into...shopping trips (even if it is just window shopping at times)...watching girly chick flicks...then after enjoying a girls day or evening then coming home and worshiping Master. I miss being bond together with another girl and knowing that one of us moving will affect the other.

Of course finding a subby that desires to be my personal play thing who is willing to serve my Master as well would be great too. Keep you as just my toy to do as I order make my life easier...worshiping me in every way as Master watches. Torturing you body in a mixture of pain and pleasure...you never knowing which is coming your way. Blindfold you leaving you to wonder who is touching you. Then when I'm done with you sending you off to your bed (be it a cage or a real bed or just a pillow on the floor depending upon how pleased I am). Sending you out to do grocery shopping while you wear a butt plug and nipple clamps or some other set up that I may select for you.

I can be a variety of things...I can be the super sweet loving tender best friend sister to your sadistic bitch of a Mistress. Your choice...you tell me by your behavior. This could vary day by day if you enjoy not knowing which you will be getting...but I will always care about one who is with me and will always be there to listen to you. No matter the arrangement we have honesty and openness is required. How else do I know if something is bothering you unless you tell me.

Just a random thought...I always receive message from male subs/slaves wanting to offer me service. How many would be truly interested in a non sexual strictly service oriented set up. This means you would not get to have sex...though perhaps your reward could be that you are allowed to masturbate to a photo of me. But the service would be tending to the yard...mowing grass, cleaning up after our dogs, weeding the flower beds, home maintenance...so this boy would have to be a handy man.

My other thought is about financial slaves....what do you get in return for giving a Mistress/Domme money?

Now with that said I am not seriously looking for such ... but I am curious about those who are into this. I personally know that I could never just hand my money over to another...well I sort of did at one point but that is another story all together. So if you are one of these type of submissives I would love to hear from you and try to understand this concept.

Women that we contact...don't worry your money is yours. If you become a live-in, yes you would be expect to contribute to household expenses but you would also be required to form a savings account and you would be able to spend the remainder of your money as you decide.

Got some new outfits for play time...so excited. I even got a new pair of shoes to go with an outfit I'm waiting to come in. Perhaps I will update my photos soon. I even got a new toy that I picked out and when I shared I shared it with Master his eyes lit up. I knew he would love it even though I really debated about purchasing before talking to him.

I'm so exhausted today...I worked my butt this weekend. Yesterday I hand scrubbed the kitchen floor...crawling around on my hands and knees even though I injured my knee Friday. Today I did carpet cleaning...then went outside and mowed the grass so that Master doesn't have to do it (completely surprised him when he got home), I also filled up 2 1/2 bags for yard waste by gathering leaves that were left from the fall. I even washed the bedding though I still have to finish making the bed. I was certainly a busy little girl today.

If you don't read someone's profile and you ask stupid questions that are clearly lined out in the profile you should not be surprised when you are referred to as a fool. Also keep in mind that no matter what a person is labeled as we are all people. I might have slave in my name but under no circumstances should you ever assume you have the right to belittle me. Only person that might do that is my Master and he does not belittle me. Secondly when you try to belittle someone by saying they work at WalMart perhaps you should know the associates who work there. They are high school students, college students, perhaps people who got laid off and accepted any job they could find, they are moms working part time while children are in school, they are also our elders who perhaps do not have enough retirement or social security and have to work or perhaps they just enjoying having a job, some may even be highly educated that are seeking jobs in their chosen fields but in today's economy can not find any one hiring. But no that is not what I do, I work in a professional environment...but I do shop at WalMart and I refuse to use the self checkout lines at any store to help protect their jobs.

Had a wonderful night last night. I set up a scene for us...then just let go of all choices. It has been a while since we had a good scene due to just the realities of life...things to do and one or the other of us just not feeling good. Sadly, however, I woke up and not feeling great. I'm just lounging around on the couch hoping it goes away soon. My head is pounding...if it doesn't go away I will have to have him drive me around on my errands otherwise I won't be able to get things done that have to be done today.

What is it with men...I guess they can not read at all. We are not seeking a male...I am not looking for a dom. Learn to read....just because you are horny does not make you a match for us. My profile clearly states we are only looking for females. Of course I doubt any man reads this as they just look at a picture and respond without reading a thing.

Been talking to a few girls that seem like a possible match.  I just hope that they don't just blow us off. We would love to have a girl join us as a household slave...responsible for tending to the home, meals, grocery shopping, as well as taking care of us. We have two options for the girl who joins us...you take care of all the chores and don't work outside the home or you work outside the home and you and I share chores.

Wow...lots of remarks from other Dom/mes. Please stop sending me mail that tells me what you want to do with me....asking me to meet you...asking me what I would do with you. These are all very inappropriate mail to be sending. I am taken and there is no way I'm leaving my Master.   Those who send a simple compliment might get a thank you back depending upon how much time I have available to be on here...but don't ruin it with coming back with something inappropriate. I don't need you to send me bondage pictures or nude pictures.

We are not looking for a submissive male to join us. Master is straight. We are only seeking a female. We are looking for honest, sincere, commitment, loyalty, someone who will communicate with us, knows how to be discreet around others who are not involved.

I have to laugh every time I go through the list of those who view my profile. The males on this website typically have the worst photos...WTF?!?! Do you really think those photos are appealing? They are a huge turn off...it's even worse being that I'm not looking for men. Some of the photos make me sick to my stomach.

Alright those who claim to be "dom" ... I am TAKEN. I do not want pictures of your genitals. It is not appealing, it doesn't prove anything except for the fact that you are nothing but an asshole...tells me you are some lonely man who is probably sitting in front of your computer masturbating. Mrniceguy4u

you are blocked because you are offensive. I don't consider you a dom as you are disrespectful and don't seem to care when someone tells you no.

I am so sick of requests coming in from males...NO I am not interested in you at all. I don't care what you say or what nudes you show me I will not sway away from my Master. I love him with all my heart. I also don't need a male sub either...Master is the only man in my life and shall remain that way.