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I'm looking for a long term, part time relationship with a woman. By that, I mean a real, serious romance, just with limits on time/availability. I'm looking for a lover and a friend, one who is willing and able to accept that my children and my primary relationship must ultimately come first, but who is also willing to give me an important place in her heart and life, as she will have an important place in mine.
Note: All emails from men are automatically routed to my junk folder. I am not looking for a man. Don't waste your time. Sorry, nice guys who just want to be friends. End note.
I enjoy reading, action-comedy and sci-fi movies and TV, pool, golf (especially mini-golf), swimming, dining out, and especially just sitting around talking about life, the universe and everything. :) Oh, I also have three cats and a turtle as pets, and I am a pescetarian (but you don't have to be!)
I am married (he's my submissive) and a mother to young children and I simply don't have the time/energy to maintain two full-time relationships. I can, however, offer a very high quality part time relationship.
You'd have to get along well enough/be friends with my spouse. You will NOT be expected to interact with him in any even remotely sexual way. I would hope we could all hang out together in addition to our "just us" time. He's actually probably easier to get along with than I am.
I'm very, very liberal in my politics and prefer that my friends and companions be as well.
I am open to either a local or long-distance relationship. We would probably interact most heavily online (phone is hard with little kids being distracting) and see each other at least a few times a year, maybe as often as once a month, for "us time", in addition to the time we spend together more casually.
I'm strongly dominant, in bed and out, and very into giving pain, so you need to be both submissive and masochistic, or at least very open to working on whichever thing you aren't.
While I can gladly provide many rules for someone who wants them, my natural style is more general rather than micro-management. You will never doubt where the final authority lies, however. As a sadist, I particularly enjoy spanking, various hitting tools, nipple clamps/play, and orgasm control/delay. The full spectrum of my likes and dislikes is, of course, in the handy list Collar Me provides. :)
I am intelligent, creative, loving, and a very good advisor. My particular skill is getting into your head and knowing you better than you know yourself.
I don't do drugs and don't want you to. I quit smoking several years ago and would prefer you not smoke, at least around me. If you are in a relationship, our relationship MUST be fully accepted and agreed to by your other partner(s).
Contact me if you are female (post-op is fine, but not pre-op/no-op, sorry), bi/lesbian, and interested in what you've seen so far. Please talk a little about yourself/why you decided to message me and/or ask me some questions. I'm a thinker and a talker and that's how I'll connect with you best to start with. Thank you. Note: If you don't explicitly say in your profile that you are looking for a female dominant and open to being a secondary partner, I am unlikely to attempt to contact you no matter how much I may like you, so don't hesitate to contact me.
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