I am a practitioner of hypnosis. In my travels I’ve studied NLP, hypnosis, ontologies, this and that, etc. Am I an expert? By no means. I could not hold My weight in a discussion of the experts. This then, is simply one Man’s understanding and opinion. There may be more.

Let’s take a look at the brain, shall we? The brain has evolved from the front to the back. Basically, the back is the wanting part and the front is the restraint part and we constantly have to regulate the two. Any honest person is well aware of this incessant struggle, and it comes at a high price.

Imagine then, our poor relations, way back in time were doing their gathering and hunting. Resources were limited so the brain developed without moderation in mind. You simply go for what you want. This persists to this day. There is a war going on in there. It’s complete bedlam. Your prefrontal cortex is constantly trying to reconcile the right and left brains. You have artistes in there, logicians, tough guys and drama queens all in a battle. But wait there’s more! I didn’t even get to the pleasure part!

Skip forward to modern Man still using an ancient brain. Everything we do is still reliant on old processes necessary for survival.

Midbrain, we have the decadent portion. This is where your BDsM activity resides. The midbrain is also where your addictions and pleasures are active. Need to burn one? Midbrain lights up. Gamblers and shoppers all come here to feed their appetites. Your survival literally depends on your midbrain. Eating and sex as well as rest, are the drivers.

Briefly let’s consider the habits of smoking, drinking, drugs, etc. What survival value do they have? NADA. They have simply learned how to pick the lock of the midbrain. Pick the lock. Pick the lock.

This is where My self styled hypnosis comes in. I take My subject on a journey relating the preceeding far more conversationally and using touch and a select tap, tap, tap to get her under. Well before I finish she is deep, deeply under.

This is simply one Man’s approach to hypnosis. Pick the lock of the midbrain

My love for her becomes deeper every day. Just as from one raindrop, a river flows unto the oceans we grow. My love and Protection for My girl expands every day. you will know us when you see us as she makes a spectacular entrance. I will be the gentleman, unconcerned, disconnected of others opinions as I will stand every time she graces Me with her presence as l hold her chair for her. I will be the one who receives her patented Hollywood kiss, you know the one where she will cup My face in her hands and lift one leg in the air.

I cannot even recall how many times I have proposed to her nor the exotic locations. The next time perhaps on a bed of pink roses and lavender lilacs. she deserves My best.

"Only one who devotes himself to a cause with his whole strength and soul can be a true master. For this reason mastery demands all of a person."
-Albert Einstein

I cannot recall the precise moment
I can't even recall what color dress she wore
I can recall the impression, crystal clear
For that precise moment, time stood still
Clocks stood still as she entered the room
I wondered if she was even aware
that her presence awakened My heart
How many hearts even
her gifts, her gifts
Could it even be that they even escape her
Could it be that I am to reveal her

Sheer madness prevails upon reason to yield
But all is not lost, it is only  mistaken
A small consolation but I know just how you feel

You are right where you are supposed to be right now. You are the one you've been waiting for.

(That is one of the things I've helped women to 'get' about themselves)

 Stars, hide your fires,  Let not light see my black and deep desires ~Shakespeare

Sing with Me and finish My song:

                       Rise up this morning
                       smiled with the rising sun
                       three little birds
                       pitch by my door step
                       singing sweet songs
                       of melodies pure and true
                       saying...

If I won the lottery, I would form a charity and donate every penny into it. I would draw a modesty salary as an employee of the charity and I would follow My dream to use My skills to an even greater degree to help people. First thing I would do is use My wood lathe and make wig stands for girls who have cancer. Then I would pay for extended stay hotel for the homeless on the coldest nights. I would start a school to teach people marketable skills, drawing on local industry to provide the instructors, so people could funnel directly into the job market. I would teach people how to garden, start market gardens, to landscape. I would make a video to instruct parents to look for signs in the children who need meds, BEFORE those kids self medicate. I would start a program to test kids for hypoglycemia, before potential asocial behavior lands them in front of a judge. I would teach the many people who volunteer for mission work, how to drill for clean water. I would definitely start an organization to bring the three Bible based religions together for improved relations. I would provide micro loans to women in 3rd world countries for cows and looms and a market to sell their wares. Those would be My passions.

In the 'Old way' (Old Testament, woman came from Adam's rib), In the 'New Covenant' (New Testament), Man owes his salvation to Mary, a woman. How profound is that?

2 Questions: Feel free to weigh in. To each person who responds, I will tell you the consensus, by your choice of message, email,  phone, pony, etc

1) What is it that YOU think every woman wants in a relationship?

2) What is it that YOU want in a relationship, if you consider yourself different from 'every' woman?

I think I have a very good handle on this and I will offer My perspective in your reply. Who knows? I may just learn something. I hope I do.

You laugh at Me because I am different. I laugh at you because you are all the same.

I have never been very materialistic, so I don't have a huge amount of possessions an hardly anything fancy. I also don't want for anything.  Recently, I feel like I am being guided by life to sell lots of My stuff and to lighten My load. I wonder what all that might mean. Perhaps an adventure awaits Me!

Changing My ad up for awhile to keep from being stale. I am offering My time and attention to female submissive and slaves who need a confidant, a Mentor, a generous ear and no judgement feedback. We all need someone objective who we can turn to. Feel free to introduce yourself.

Actually, this may become part of a dream I had. True that

"Lesson of Time - KARMA  When a bird is alive. It eats Ants, When the bird is dead... Ants eat the bird. Time & Circumstances can change at any time. Don't devalue or hurt anyone in life. You may be powerful today. But remember, Time is more powerful than you! One tree makes a million match sticks... Only one match stick needed to burn a million trees... So be good and do good. "

What is in it for Me? I crave controlling a woman's mind first. I love to explore with her and have her trust so that I can completely Protect her and guide her. Besides I offer a 100%, no questions asked, guarantee...If by the time I finish with you, you are not satisfied, I promise to refund all your misery.OK, wow, I will edit this an answer some questions here. I am highly prescriptive and I love to bring a woman's mind and body to places she never knew existed. I am best at sensation play, ANR, bondage, orgasm control, collars, blindfolds, vibrator torture, wax play, temperature play, etc. Essentially I am into the erotic aspects of BDSM. First, I want to know your needs.

I am not a sadist and not an angry Dom. I don't want your money ether. I would love your endorphin release and adrenalin dump.

I am seeking a Mentee again. This is not a sex ad. I've been told I have sage advice to give. you would decide

I suppose there's a purpose in pain     What  we make of ourselves has a cost    And  it's paid every time we take hold of the reins

I am also seeking someone to collaborate with to write My historical romance novel. I would pay for us to be covered under a formal ghost writing contract for your assistance in bringing My intense ideas to paper.  I would need to know that you have been a successful published author or convinced you have what it takes to write for Me, for Us.  It would be a shame for Me to go to My grave with this song still inside. I am approachable and you should be serious about your abilities.

My journey as a Dominant is different from many whom I have met. I do not judge others, I simply know who I am, where I’ve been and where I want to go, and with confidence.

While I never judge others outwardly, inside, I do make necessary distinctions and decisions, necessary for Me to be who I am and who I am not.

Many choose the label ‘Dominant’ and are under the illusion that this means they can be boorish, bullies, cruel, harsh and have a disconnected license to do so. To Me, that is a shallow game requiring no skills and in fact dehumanizes oneself and their victim.

A Dominant in My humble opinion has desirable qualities of being a Mentor in the best definition, a Guide, a Teacher, someone you can turn to when times are rough, not someone who is the reason your times have become rough.

There is a clear difference between the Master/Dominant and the Sadistic abuser. Do not be confused. Anyone can and many ill prepared do actually fling whips and smack canes. Are they Dominant or ego involved Sadists? You know. You know too. I know of few submissives who prefer Sadists and too many who are confused and settle and become involved with them.

Ask yourself what a Dominant is, what a Master is and see if who you are involved in is more of an egomaniac with a stick, or someone true to you. Remember that ‘Responsibility’ means ‘Responding with Ability’, all else = ‘Responding with Disability’. Ultimately, I would ask whose care is being considered? The Dominant as a Leader? As a Protector? Or His self as a self centered, shallow taker?

Then there are the Masochists who prefer Sadists and that dynamic is a ok fine as they know who they are and what they want. This essay is not on judgment of them, nor of anyone. Just one Man’s opinion.

 I am certain you know something that I don't and I want to know what it is! As you read this, your mind went 'inside' and you began to ask yourself what that could be and now you ask yourself, how I got inside you so quickly. Now you reread this journal entry for clues if I did anything else inside your mind that you didn't notice. And now you pause and either drop Me a line that you wish to correspond, or you drop a line a thank for the 'drive by' and that someone besides you 'gets it' or alternatively you...

What’s the bottom line? That ignores the essential equation. You see the top line explains the bottom line.

As a Master to My slave girl, I do not fear sensitivity because it allows her to come to Me in her moments of fear. I do not hide My tears which allows her to run to Me when she needs My shoulder. I whisper when compelled, which tells her that I have the capacity to pay attention to her every thought. I take responsibility for Myself to display that I am willing to take responsibility for her (responding with ability). I ventured forth alone, so that I can show her the way, safely navigating our path. I never run for her, ever, because I never gave her a single moment’s hesitation to run from Me. I nurture our relationship knowing we both have choice and we cultivate each other’s gardens. She has never heard My ‘outside’ voice as the calm we afford each other is joyful. I expose Myself to her thoughts so that we may grow together. We give each other the least selfish thing one can do for another…we give the gift of time and to be there fully.  I embraced her fears fully, with empathy and taught her, we will never be alone. I taught her the gifts of sharing and caring and she offered her gifts of love and respect. I have taken her in hand and shown her the path to peace and in return she taught Me that our path is togetherness filled with love, loyalty and dependability.

Wishing all the Mom's a Happy Mother's Day.  Wishing all the Dad's who raised their kids alone (like Me) a Happy Mother's Day as well. We had to be both Moms AND Dads, didn't we?

"A woman in the presence of a good man, a real man, loves being a woman.  His strength allows her feminine heart to flourish.  His pursuit draws out her beauty.  And a man in the presence of a real woman loves being a man.  Her beauty arouses him to play the man, it draws out his strength.  She inspires him to be a hero"

When someone asks you, "A penny for your thoughts", and you put your two cents in, what happens to the other penny?

I never judge others as I am called to a much different consideration. On the other hand, as a Dominant, I stand up to the courage of My convictions. Does this make Me popular or attractive? Those considerations are completely irrelevant to Me as to be preoccupied with other's opinions would enslave Me and counter to everything I stand for. Do I stand for things? Absolutely. Someone must. Do My actions support My convictions? you know it. I am too humble to be a braggart, but I encourage all who use the title Dominant or Master to stand up to their convictions and act. Sans that you are what? Practicing role playing at kinky sex? I suppose that is fine for some.

Anyone want to collaborate on an historical romance novel? I have the ideas

A woman wants to be Protected first of all. she wants to be known before owned. A woman wants to offer her trust before she offers her body. her body is her gift offered much later. A woman wants to be respected. I will continue depending on response

To have someone give you control of their bodies and minds, to be entrusted with the responsibility to take care of them, to have someone willing to suffer for you, to forsake pride and dignity to please you... what other gift in this world can possibly equate to that? And more importantly, what makes you worthy to receive it?

creative juices flowing today, pondering My next move, My entrepeneurial streak is raging, Who has an idea for Us to consider?

“Out of suffering have emerged the strongest souls; the most massive characters are seared with scars.” Kahlil Gibran

We are placed on this earth to see each other through this experience. It's no accident

Roll the dice. 'Don't take life too seriously; you'll never get out of it alive anyway. ' Mark Twain

Whoever fights monsters should see to it
That in the process he does not become a monster.
If you gaze for long into an abyss,
the abyss gazes also into you.

Friedrich Nietzsche - "Beyond Good and Evil"

Use what talents you possess: the woods would be very silent if no birds sang there except those that sang best.

Henry Van Dyke

Oh, her eyes, her eyes, make the stars look like they're not shining
Her hair, her hair, falls perfectly without her trying
She's so beautiful, and I tell her every day

Yeah, I know, I know, when I compliment her she won't believe me
And it's so, it's so, sad to think that she don't see what I see
But every time she asks me do I look ok, I say

When I see your face, there's not a thing that I would change
Cause you're amazing, just the way you are
And when you smile, the whole world stops and stares for a while
Because girl you're amazing, just the way you are(yeah)

Her lips, her lips, I could kiss them all day if she let me
Her laugh, her laugh, she hates but I think it's so sexy
She's so beautiful, and I tell her every day

Oh, you know, you know, you know, I'd never ask you to change
If perfect's what you're searching for then just stay the same
So, don't even bother asking if you look ok
You know I'll say

When I see your face, there's not a thing that I would change
Cause you're amazing, just the way you are
And when you smile, the whole world stops and stares for a while
Because girl you're amazing, just the way you are
The way you are, the way you are
Girl you're amazing, just the way you are

When I see your face, there's not a thing that I would change
Cause you're amazing, just the way you are
And when you smile, the whole world stops and stares for a while
Cause girl you're amazing, just the way you are. Yeah

I love all the weather. I am wild for the sensations. Here is why. In this hot weather, I would take you on your deck and let you got good and sweaty hot and tie your wrists to your chaise lounge. I would hold a dripping glass of ice water over you and let the cold condensation drip on your body. I would move along your body, drip, drip, drip and watch you blink each time.  you could wear a bikini at first, although by the end you wouldn't want to. Afterwards, perhaps a little ice play. I would tie your hands and hold an ice cube near your nipples and blow cool air across your nipples. Then same for your clit, to see her reveal herself. My fist grasps an ice cube tightly and continues it's drip. I trace that ice cube across your lips and you leap at it in your thirst.  I force cool air by blowing the ice across your nipples and then your clit. Finally, an ice cube in your navel which I suck and drip and drink off of you, as you become My fine goblet. Still certain you want a weather change?

Never question in the darkness, what was promised to you in the light.

On ne voit bien qu'avec le cœur. L'essentiel est invisible pour les yeux. ("One sees clearly only with the heart. What is essential is invisible to the eye."

I got a tombstone hand and a graveyard mind, 
I lived long enough and I ain't scared of dying. 

Who do you love ?  (Bo Diddley)

FREE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I am standing by the seashore.
A ship at my side spreads her white sails to the morning breeze
and starts for the blue ocean.
She is an object of beauty and strength,
and I stand and watch
until at last she hangs like a peck of white cloud
just where the sun and sky come down to mingle with each other.

Then someone at my side says, 'There she goes!
Gone where? Gone from my sight - that is all.

She is just as large in mast and hull and spar
as she was when she left my side
and just as able to bear her load of living freight
to the places of destination.
Her diminished size is in me, not in her.

And just at the moment when someone at my side says,
'There she goes! ' ,
there are other eyes watching her coming,
and other voices ready to take up the glad shout :
'Here she comes!'

Relationships, like water, seek their own level.

aaaaah to have total  control over a woman and  to use it for nothing more then her pleasure. ..divine

It isn't the mountains ahead to climb that wear you out; it's the pebble in your shoe.

Muhammad Ali

I have a perfect body ... it's in the trunk and starting to smell

"...But if you tame me then we shall need each other. To me, you will be unique in all the world. Yo you, I shall be unique in all the world..."  (Antoine de Saint-Exupery, The Little Prince) 1943

Have you found your outer Marcie to your inner Peppermint Patty?

Tall and tan and young and lovely 

My shatzy from Germanygoes walking

And when she passes, each one she passes goes “ah”

When she walks, she’s like a samba

She swings so cool and sways so gentle

And when she passes, each one she passes goes “ooh”

For your love I'd rope the moon

Put it in a blender

Mix up a concoction bound to make you surrender

I'd bite the brand off a buckin' brahma bull

I'd rob me a gin mill

Then I'd fill the ocean full

I'd take on the army

And the her majesty's marines

Your love ain't just the cover

It's the whole magazine

For your love I'd stop a freight train
Single handed

I would straighten out the bends  
In the Rio Grand

I'd climb up the tower at the TV station

Broadcast my affection to

The United Nations

I'd take on the government  
In Washington DC

Your love ain't just the en-jine
It's a rockin' machine

For your love...I'd stop the hands of time
For your love...I'd dig a diamond mine
For your love...I'd do it all the time

For your love I'd walk a tight rope

Wrestle anacondas

Jump a motorcycle over  
Half-a-dozen Hondas

Carve your initials on a forest of bamboo

Paint the Brooklyn Bridge, baby pink
With a broom

I'd take on the press
From Tokyo to Pravda

Your love ain't just the hot sauce
It's the whole enchilada

In the Old way, woman came from Man (Adams rib), and she was responsible for Man's fall (tree of forbidden fruit). In the New Way, Man came from woman (Mary), and therefore, woman is largely responsible for Man's salvation.

Doctrine of Signatures 
Mullein's stalk is stout, thick, and tall, and its base is especially strong. The entire plant is soft, fuzzy, hairy, and velvety. The mullein's phallus-shaped terminal spike filled with flowers also represents strength with softness, promoting intimacy and gentleness.

hmmmmmmm

In a place you only dream of, where your soul is always free... 

Now if I let you see this place, where stories all ring true 

Then will you let me past your face to see what's really you ?

It's not for me I ask this quest, as though I was a king 

For you have to love, believe and feel, before the burst of tamborines take you there.
Green grass and high tides forever 
Castles of stone souls and glory 
Lost faces say we adore you  
As kings and queens bow and play for you.
Those who don't beleive me, find your souls and set them free
Those who do, beleive and love, as time will be your key
Time and time again I've thanked them for a piece of mind
They helped me find myself amongst the music and the rhyme that enchants you there