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Hey all, Im DarkSteel, aka Tim. By day, I play with submarines and laser robots and do a lot of math. By night, Im an uninhibited and unashamed kinkster and neophile. I love trying new things, talking to people whose perspectives differ from my own, and discussing and debating ideas, both in and out of the kinky community.
So as not to waste your time, I want to say this up front
Anyone who might be interested in me should be aware that
-I have serious chronic medical problems that impact my daily life (nothing contagious or deadly though)
-I am a fairly heavy guy (285 lb)
-I am married and polyamorous, and my wife and I head a poly household.
If youre okay with all that, read on!
What Im looking for
Im actively looking for a submissive cis female or trans male partner for a relationship Im open to a pretty wide range of possibilities for what that relationship could look like, from an a-bit-more-than-casual Ds dynamic to having someone eventually join my poly household as my full-time submissive. Im generally looking for people in the 21-35 age range, but Im happy to make an exception if we hit it off. Im also always open to new friends and play partners of any age, gender, and Ds orientation, so feel free to send me a message!
As a submissive, Im a huge painslut and Im open to trying almost anything.
As a Dom, I enjoy training and discipline and impact play, as well as the emotional and psychological side of Ds. I would describe myself as strict but nurturing. Anyone can hit someone, or boss them around, or fuck them. I want to own you, mind, body, and soul. I want to know you better than you know yourself. I want to help you become a better you, and I want my praise to be the reason you want to succeed and my displeasure to be the reason youre afraid to fail. And I want to earn and deserve the level of trust and respect that kind of submission requires.
I also like to teach and being well padded Im hard to accidentally hurt, so I really enjoy working with new kinksters of any stripe.
About me
Im a huge geek and have a weakness for games of all kinds. Im simultaneously blessed and cursed with finding almost everything interesting, and often get sidetracked because I want to stop and read about a particular variety of spider or talk to someone about their linguistics research for two hours. My other hobbies include cooking, massage, everything to do with computers, reading anything I can get my hands on, doing math, and going on wacky adventures.
When it comes to kink, Ive been involved in the lifestyle for several years. Ive known I was submissive for a long time and have been exploring my dominant side for a while now as well. Even after years in the lifestyle, Im still finding new things out there to try out and that I enjoy. Im a weird, wacky, smart, geeky guy who loves to experiment and enjoy new experiences (and revisit old ones), and this community constantly gives me chances to do that.
Im attracted to both women and men and at this point I consider myself pansexual, though I expect my sexuality will continue to evolve. While physically Im definitely a cis man, I have a strong effeminate streak (or, as my friends like to put it, a giant, gaping vag) and love to joke about it and use it as an excuse to embrace my feminine side.
While I do not need her permission to play with or date other people, I am happily married to a wonderful sadist. I am a firm believer that people shouldnt con to traditions or social expectations that make them unhappy, so I think that both monogamous and non-monogamous relationships are pretty great, as long as they work for the people involved. Whatever it is, Im willing to try just about anything at least once.
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