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This announcement is to officially state that slave bells is no longer under training contract with Mistress Dahlia Jayde or The Leather Family Jayde. Without going into personal reasons...this contract was a training contract entered into in good faith by both parties. After long conversations and considerations this slave was released due to being unable to meet the requirements of her contact at this time or in the foreseeable future. This slave has accepted her release and is in process of finding her new path. The Leather Family Jayde wishes her well. |
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Where have all the good little pain sluts gone? Is it to hard to find a good sub/slave who is also a pain whore?? Grr...*kissy noise* "Come out little ones!!!"
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***I have decided that I desire a sissymaid or house slut. I have been so busy with work and school that I want a nice slut to train to clean once or twice a week.
**And of course there are punishments and rewards for doing the job correctly or badly.
If you are interested....email an intro telling Me what you can offer.
XOXO
Mistress Dahlia Jayde
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Wow, hadn't been to Passive Arts in a long while - had so much fun this past weekend. So much fun furniture! Of course put some of the furniture to good use with Alpha Slave and Rei...luv the atmosphere.
Greatly looking fwd to DomCon this year!! It's always fun, but this sounds especially great.
XOXO
Dahlia Jayde |
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I am proud to announce that I have found a grrl on this site who had great potential. She is on probationary training in The Family Jayde. Her current name on this site is SlaveRei13.
So far she is respectful, honest and most of all eager and ready to be trained.
If you have any need to contact her for anything other than friendly conversation please be respectful enough to ask Me.
Mistress Dahlia Jayde |
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Well, finally going to have time to go out with the Family to some clubs. Have had some great invites from some new friends and some old friends (no, I am not calling you old haha). So, W/we will be going to "Passive Arts" again and "Garden of Heathens". Hope to run into all of you cool peeps that I haven't seen in a while.
XOXO
Mistress Dahlia Jayde |
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**Please** --
For any of you out there who have questions regarding My past...or things people have stated about My past relationships...etc. Have the balls to come straight to Me and ask. I have no problem answering ANY questions regarding My past or present situations.
I find it much more respectable and honorable for anyone who has questions or curiosities to just ask...much more honorable than asking everyone but Me.
Thanks,
Mistress Dahlia Jayde |
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My lovely little slut "fingernailboy" on this site...has really shown Me what a lovely gift a selfless and giving slave can be. He is one of the most respectful and polite slaves I have ever had the honor of knowing and calling Mine.
Funny, I always say I don't EVER collar or own anyone out of State or Country unless they are visiting on a regular basis. Well, you know the saying...never say never. W/we will see eachother probably not as much as I see My other slaves from outstide LA...but he is so willing to put in the work and commitment that I have been surprised in such a pleasent way!
Thank you luv, you are truly a giving and commited slut...certainly one of My favorite little whores for sure!
XOXO
Mistress Dahlia Jayde |
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It's so adorable how many submissives/slaves are too shy to approach a Mistress. You all have to get up the nerve and send emails. I have had quite a few lovely slaves email and tell Me they had waited months to email no knowing what to say or how to approach.
So, here is an easy answer. For Myself anyway...as long as you are respectful I will respong to anyone who emails. Sometimes it gets a bit delayed due to a busy schedule...but I will respond if you email politely and respectfully.
Mistress Dahlia Jayde |
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Haven't been on for quite a bit. Been so busy with The Leather Family Jayde and just life in general. However, I realized I have seriously neglected this profile, email and friends on here. So, I'm baaaacccckkk hahha.
Yes, I am still taking applications...however only serious submissives/slaves need apply for training. I don't have time to deal with people who don't know if they want to truly serve or submit. So...don't waste My time...and I won't bite your head off in reply. Fair enough I think.
XOXO
Mistress Dahlia Jayde |
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Well, it seems that a person who thinks he is a slave and was taken into the family has decided that a past Mistress coming back into his life (left him in a bad way as far as I understood) is more important than the commitments he made to Me and My Leather Family.
Soooo - that means there is an opening for another slave to apply. I of course am still looking for a sissy or domestic. But, also a male/female slave looking to seriously serve.
So boyz n girlz, feel free to email about the applications again! I look fwd to finding a few good slaves haha.
Oh and female bois - I have a special fondness for you! Grrr
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Please understand that if you are applying for training, collaring, or ownership...you will be involved in a Leather Family and be around others. I am only looking for loyal, TRUE slaves who are willing to be trained and actually put in the work.
This does not mean you need to be available 24/7...but that I must know your extra time, after family or work obligations is dedicated to Me, your training and servitude.
Dahlia |
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Where are all the masochistic true slaves out there? I know there must be a few left out there! You don't have to be a masochist...but a true slave minded person would be nice!
*yawn* so tired of fakes and one handed typists!! |
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Well boyz n girlz....you heard it here first....
THE ICE BITCH IS BACK
After being backstabbed a few times and having some attempt to play Me <haha as if>. I had previously decided that My being such a hard nosed ice bitch wasn't a good thing. Well, learned that lesson...The Ice Bitch is Supreme. Oh and back with a vengance <evil grin>
BRING IT ON! |
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I am looking for one good Sissy Maid to come over and clean once or twice a week. Must be willing to be fully dressed the whole time...BUT must actually clean not just prance around in pretty clothing!
Send Me an email if you are interested =) |
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To everyone who has been emailing - sorry for the slow replies. I took a bad fall n spent a night in the e.r. - long story short arm is in an imobilization sling thing until i go the hospital again in the next few days.
So I will be checkin email but typing one handed n pain make it slow goin. If u wanna talk and have my digits that's much easier
xoxo
Mistress Dahlia |
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New pics should be up today or tomorrow =) |
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Wow, Leather Family is going so well. This is better than I could have hoped and much more fulfilling with the slaves I have who are excelling at training and are so loyal. I am very proud of each and every one of you boyz =)
Mistress Dahlia |
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Let Me take you to a place far, far away<br>
Leading you on a long road to a place where only those like us can go. <br>
A place where pain and pleasure collide into a wonderful orgasm of ecstasy<br>
Dahlia Jayde (cw)2007 |
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Please understand if you are applying...I am head of a BDSM Leather Family. This includes gay/straight/trans persons. There is a hierarchy to the Family. There will be Tops who are either male/female or gay/straight/bi. We are not a swinger group...but if you are a slave you will need to be able and willing to drop your pretenses at the door and serve Myself and any other Tops at My discretion and request.
I get that this is not for everyone, but please do not email trying to ask "can't you bend the rules for me?" I do not bend My rules for anyone...especially people I don't know.
Mistress Dahlia |
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Honestly, so many people on here have only one idea of BDSM. I am very opinionated Myself, but I never assume that My opinion is the one and only or the be all and end all. Everyone does things differently...get over yourselves. |
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Congrats to Me and My The Family Jayde haha - we have another addition to our family as of today...a new slave boy. Kind of feels like saying "it's a boy" haha...but lots of friends on here look at My profile...so I like to keep everyone updated.
Cheers
Dahlia |
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If you are hoping to serve or be considered for ownership, you must be willing to start off with My application process. If you are not...then don't bother contacting.
People looking for Mentoring or friends please feel free to email anytime.
Mistress Dahlia
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*update*
Well, it seems My search has become VERY fruitful all of a sudden <evil grin>. I currently have 3 male slaves who have become owned...and another who is under consideration. Wow, when they say be careful what you ask for...nah I LUV it!
Anyone sending a new application will need to understand that My time is limited both professionally and personally - so make it GOOD or I won't be replying.
Mistress Dahlia Jayde |
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Just had the best Sat. night at Sanctuary. Took My newly owned Alpha Boy out for a night of debauchery! W/we had a bloody good time...literally <evil grin>. I will post a few pics if it's allowed on here. Hope everyone else had a great weekend too.
Cheers
Mistress Dahlia |
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OMG I need more rubber in My wardrobe! I miss it sooooo much. I used to have a lot of rubber wear and well over the years it gets busted up when you are a little rough haha. I would luv to find a rubber slave/slut who will bring Me rubber gifts! Grrrr yummy rubber boyz/girlz make Me want to claw things - but not the rubber (that is how I lost some nice pieces haha)
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I tell everyone this up front, so I am putting it on My profile for all to see. The most important thing with Me Is HONESTY. I find it so funny that so many boyz/girlz think they can lie, keep info or be dishonest in any way. CA is a small community no matter what you think. You never know who knows who. If you are not totally ready to be honest and completely open...then don't bother contacting Me. I can forigve just about anything...except dishonesty in any form. |
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I just have to say this and get it off My chest! There are so many people on here into drama...it's like their whole lives revolve around causing it, looking for it or just plain enjoying it. I made a pledge to Myself years ago that I would no longer allow drama prone people into My life and it's been working great. It just seems that a lot of people would benefit from getting a dose of reality injected into their lives. This isn't junior high last time I looked - gawd actually there was less drama then.
Ok steppin of the soap box for a few! But really, if you are into drama, have drama, etc then don't contact Me.
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People who are out to cause drama and split people are just pathetic. Some people just have too much time on their hands. Oh and it didn't work - I trust My slave implicitly. So, good luck on causing trouble elsewhere bitch.
Mistress Dahlia |
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**Update**
One lucky slave has been taken to be owned completely by Me. He is loyal, respectful, eager to learn and with proper training will become a slave/slut to be truly proud of.
Mistress Dahlia |
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ll, I had 4 slaves finish the application process...however only 1 so far has met expectations <*wink you know who you are cocky boy>that were given.
So, I am going to be accepting more applications now. So far I have a total of 16 applicants so be patient I get a lot of emails and I do try and answer them all even if I am not interested.
Mistress Dahlia |
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I just can't get over the amount of men and women on this site who claim to be "Masters/Mistresses" or "Dominants" yet they have seemingly not taken the time to be mentored or learn very much about the actual lifestyle and what they are doing. Sorry, but an 18 /19yr old Mistress/Master? Wow, I guess things have changed since My day when you had to start out learning and putting in so much effort. Seems so strange to Me how someone barely out of highschol can be a Mistress/Master to another without any training.
Now, don't get Me wrong...I started at 16 - and have no problem with anyone who is a young Dominant *IF* they are open to learning and have put themselves through some rigorous learning standards.
Mistress Dahlia |
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Wow, there are so many fakes on here. And it's not just males but female submissive/slaves who spend all this time to go through the application process to either not show or to just stop talking. Just say "no thanks" or "I am not interested". I have NO PATIENCE for this crap. And then you all wonder why we are mean bitches!
It's amazing how many asses you have to go through to find one or two good ones, but it's worth it when you do. At least have I have one good one so far.
Mistress Dahlia |
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If you are not willing to get on the phone and meet up after the initiation of the application process...then please don't bother emailing in the first place. I hate wasting My time on supposed "slaves" who don't follow through or have excuses. I have over 10 people waiting to be allowed to apply - so don't take a spot from another if you don't want it or aren't sure!
Mistress Dahlia |
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I have 4 exceptional slaves that have almost reached the end of the application process so far. So, if I do not answer emails as promptly as you wish...it is because I am busy interviewing in person. I appreciate all of the applicants polite and respectful emails. I will get back to you as soon as I can. I have about 5 pages of emails to go through at this time...so I am not just ignoring you.
Thanks,
Mistress Dahlia |
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Ok, it's just something I need to say. We all have different kinks, fetishes, wants, needs and ways to live our chosen lifestyle. It seems so petty and such a sad waste of time for people to sit and write about how they don't like this or that. How they think someone typing in the W/we or O/our way is stupid. For some of us this is truly a way of life. And yet for others it's fun kink in the bedroom, and everywhere in between.
If it's not for you, then cool...move on and find what you want. But, after over 12 years in this lifestyle I have learned very well the lesson that for every lifestyle choice, fetish or kink you think is wrong, gross or strange...there will be just as many looking at your kink the same way.
My wish for this community is to be able to truly try and understand eachother and be tolerant of each other. And for those that do not feel they are a part of the BDSM community, just try not to judge so quickly and harshly.
Ok, there done with My little rant.
Mistress Dahlia |
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I have said this before, but I will say it again. Since I have 4 people in the application process so far, and many, many more emails to answer. **Please read this first!
If you are emailing for a chance to serve or looking for an owner....there will be application requirements. If you aren't willing to do anything like that, then don't' waste My time or yours.
Also, once you have done the bio, pic, etc I will want to speak with you on the phone...so if you aren't willing to get to that point you are not anyone I need to waste time with.
Mistress Dahlia
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To anyone who is thinking about approaching Me for an application, be prepared to actually "apply" and be able to follow instructions.
I know many of you feel that your profile explains everything or you send out the same pre-fab letter to each Domina. I usually request much more than that or ask different questions.
If you can't handle that kind of simple email exchange then don't waste My time or yours by emailing Me in the first place. A slaves' life is much more intricate and demanding than such trivial requests.
Good luck in finding what you are seeking all seeking.
Mistress Dahlia Jayde
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Greetings,
If you are applying for a house girl/house boy service position because that's what you are or that is your fetish, then, I am all for that...especially sissy maids and boys who luv to serve around the house.
However, if you only use the title "house boy/girl" or "domestic service" in order to impress Me and are really out to just get your jollies by expecting to play or be punished when you scew up the tasks given...don't waste your time. Most of all don't waste Mine. Be honest in what you are really looking for and willing to offer. Who knows, I might be interestd in what you TRULY have to offer.
Mistress Dahlia
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