I am an adrenalin junkie, and like to stretch my limits, and have a preference for sensuality along with punishment.

My particular fetish is to be spanked by a strong-armed, buxom lady wearing a 1950s style British nursing sisters uniform.

I am married and my wife has given her permission for me to visit other people, and to have BDSM relationships.

I have some difficulty with walking, and tend to use a powerchair or scooter for longer distances; but I can manage stairs and gardening and such other activities as may be necessary.

It should be noted that I cannot bend over in an unsupported position and my back cannot carry someone else's weight.

I am essentially interested in receiving punishment, but am willing to try anything, at least once.

It should be noted that I am not interested in any form of relationship with men, I was raped as a child, enough said.

Depth of relationship: initially fun and friendship, but we can see how things develop, I like to write a lot, and talk things through, build up a sense of rapport.

It is more important to me that the lady thoroughly enjoys what she is doing, since your enjoyment enhances my own feelings, and naturally vice versa.

I am interested in getting more into the medical fetish side and would like to know if there are any real nurses out in BDSM land who would like to take me.

As to me I am open, honest, blunt, forthright, have as much tact as a flying brick, no common-sense, don't see the obvious, hold monologues in a party, collect stuffed toy crocodiles, frogs and dragons (over a thousand), run a charitable company (unpaid) and do a lot of voluntary work - I class myself as a social entrepreneur.

Ex-Army and have my pensions from that, not rich, but I get by; I don't drive as my reactions are too slow; but am willing to travel anywhere in the UK for the right person, shall need accomodation close by.