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Looking for FRIENDS only!
Just friends, seriously. I have absolutely no interest in being with another person sexually or with kink. That's reserved for one person only, and trust me, it isn't you. (If you need it explained in simple terms, for the few who bother to actually read a profile, I'm in a committed monogamous relationship.) To be honest, the idea of being with someone else besides him in that way is repulsive. I'm more than willing to perhaps discuss topics of kink, but I'll never be yours in that way. All I want is someone I could be friends with that could understand lifestyle choices we make, to add a layer of comfort in a friendship.
I'm better with social things, hobbies, interests, and life in general. I'm a SuperWhoLockian, and a bit of a Pokénerd. I have a variety of interests, although I've become a bit of an introvert, and my most common activities are cross-stitching and streaming on my Roku. Let's talk tv shows, books, or what have you! If you care to take a peek, I have plenty of vanilla interests set in my profile. (Yes, with some of the kinky ones I have--and again, that would be discussion only!) If you want to talk faster than mail on here, feel free to use kik. Name is sillyweepingangel, just let me know who you are from here. Text only!! I don't do pictures of myself, and not interested in pictures of you. That's not relevant to conversation.
Yes, my profile is set to submissive, but only because that's the closest I can get with the choices given here. I'm more of a bottom than a submissive, but I don't need labels for how the exchange of power is with him and I. I willingly yield to him in whatever capacity is called for at that time.
So the biggest dealbreaker for most people it seems, besides the fact I won't fall over myself to please their cock, is the fact I don't have a picture of myself. I'm not comfortable with cameras. People think I'm just joking or whatever, but seriously.. when I was younger, I once literally fought kicking and screaming against 3 adult relatives because of family photos. So if you ask, just don't be surprised if I (try to) politely decline. You are not a special snowflake and asking multiple times won't give you what you want.
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If your first message is to insult a person, it doesn't say much good about you. Message I got: "5'4, 199 lbs? Jesus..." and then blocked before I could respond. The funny thing, the guy's profile lists a weight higher than mine. Hypocrite much? Sheesh, I may be a little overweight but 1) I carry my weight well and 2) am working on it. Whatever dude, not going to bring me down! Your opinion is of no importance to me. 😂 |
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When people 'view' the profile and yet can't understand the "looking for friends only".... *facepalms* Come on, people. |
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My laugh for the day! Someone found my one freely given offsite contact, which is mentioned near the *bottom* of my profile (okay, maybe more middle-ish), and I know it's long enough to need some scrolling to reach. Their first question, to "just make conversation" is for my asl... Are you fucking kidding me? XD It's right there at the top. Cue the eyeroll, the block, and now to enjoy my weekend. |
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When people can't read... Someone came in dick first to my inbox, offering money for his fetish. Then calls me a retard for rejecting him on this 'pay to play' website. Pretty sure that's not what CS is, folks. There's a "looking for friends/looking for roommates" option, so how does that say hey, pay me for sex/kink. |
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It's so nice when every now and then, you can actually find someone who can respect boundaries, treat you like a human being, and be up for chatter. Granted, it's a rare event, but I can keep trying to hope for friends.
Honest, I dare you to not send a sexual or kinky first message. I swear it will go better. It's a kink site, but hey, I'm an actual person not a fetish dispenser. :P (Nearly made my guy spit soda telling him that phrase, haha.)
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If kink is the *only* thing you can or will discuss, I'm not interested. Kink is amazing, but it's not *everything* to be had in life. Also, if you come to me about being discreet, you can fuck right off. I'm loyal to the one I belong to. |
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I was having such fun talking with someone, until the fact that his labels couldn't be applied to my relationship, which meant to him, I was with the wrong guy. Enjoy your block, dumbass. |
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Time ticks by with too little kink, too few friends, and not enough chatter. No wonder I'm getting so obsessed with my hobby. While some of my profile and journal might not come off well, I swear I don't bite! ;) At least not at first and not until asked or provoked.... Harmless banter, anyone?
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| Age: 25 |
| Malden,
Massachusetts |
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