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	I am looking for a full time hands-on Dom (age48-60) to continue my training but all I keep finding are Asshole wannabes. WHERE ARE THE HONEST, REAL MAN DOMS?????? If you are not in New England area...thank you but no thanks.Too far to travel. IF YOURE MARRIED...KEEP SEARCHING!! My Ideal Person I want a man who is gentle but firm,a little strict but understanding and loves to have a sub that is as much devoted to pleasing her Dom as he is devoted to controlling and pleasing her. I am submissive, I am NOT a slave. I am a very fun loving, insatiable, mischievous girl. I want a structured relationship..I like having rules and protocols and rituals but I dont need to be micro managed. I need to know that you are paying attention, when I start feeling ignored, I will test your boundaries, often without realizing what I am doing.I may try to initiate sex, but ultimately I want you to take over I want to feel taken, forced and ravaged. I may struggle, but it WILL be followed by surrender. In return you will have my service and submission. I am looking for a Dominant that can be my other half in vanilla as well as ALL things kinky. Just a bit of fun stuff I love reading erotica stories. I love the oceanbeach. I love horseback riding. I like to go to the movies, dining out, staying in bed late on a sunday morning to play. ***You will leave the door unlatched.You will be naked, kneeling at the door,wearing a blindfold with your hands cuffed behind your back...waiting for me.***Sounds hot and sexy, right?The above instructions were given to a sub by a Dom she had NEVER met. And she carried them out. To the letter.A little less hot now, huh?My instant reaction would be to ask is she still alive? Okay, maybe some people get off on the danger... on the thrill of the unknown... but not me. I really dont fancy the idea of becoming a screaming headline. (((I did in fact make this very scary mistake once and regretted it and will NEVER do it again.))) So, for my own safety and sanity, I have a few simple rules for those who wish me to consider them as potential play partners.You ask me what my favorite kink is hoping to get some juicy insight and the last thing you expect is for me to ask is whats your favorite color? Note Black and blue is not an acceptable answer to that question by the way, neither is 50 shades of grey.Well, if you see me simply as a series of holes to use... Ill return the favor... and see you as just one..... an asshole.Our first meeting will be in a public place where we will engage in the dying art of conversation. So then after a few meetings weve got that awkward hand shaking out the way, it is time for new introductions... butt meet hand.Playtime does not mean sex. Play is play and sex is sex. Two separate things. Learn the difference. For play you really only need your hand and mouth... if you assume sex is included... well, you will become very well acquainted with that hand of yours.When we play the first time in private there will be no bondage or restraint of any kind even though I enjoy it.... just in case I need to kick and run.I will have safe calls in place... I will tell people where I am, who Im with. Stop, No, Red, are ALL safe words. There is a difference between no dont stop and NO. DONT. STOP. Immediately after play there will be aftercare, reassurance and hugs.

10/21/2016 4:41:59 PM

MY NAME IS CATT

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{**“You will leave the door unlatched. You will be naked,
kneeling at the door, wearing a blindfold with your hands
cuffed behind your back...waiting for me.”**}
Sounds hot and sexy, right?
The above instructions were given to a sub by a Dom she had NEVER met. And she carried them out. To the letter. A little less hot now, huh?

My instant reaction to this story was to ask
“is she still alive?”
Okay, maybe some people get off on the danger... on the thrill of the unknown... but not me. I kinda enjoy breathing oxygen and I really don't fancy the idea of taking a trip to the emergency room. I made this mistake once and regretted it and will NEVER do it again.

So, for my own safety and sanity, and in my pursuit for a healthy happy D/s relationship, I have a few simple rules for those who wish me to consider them as potential play partners (DOMS).
Lets have a chat and learn about each other to see if we are compatible.