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If you are...

Intelligent, funny, sexy, fun, thick-skinned, and can take a joke as well as you give one... go here - http://dciac.net and sign up. You'll love it.

If you're interested in the local Utah BDSM community, check out www.utahpowerexchange.com for information on BDSM education open to everyone in the local community!

If you would like information on all of the Utah local groups, join our google group, groups.google.com/utbdsm


I'm Gryphon, a 37 year old bisexual polyamorous Switch, I am recently widowed (hubby passed away 4/20) but I spend as much time as possible with my love/Daddy, D. I'm a tall, chubby, long-legged pink haired girl, and I wear glasses.  I'm VERY active in the Salt Lake BDSM community.

I'm not actively seeking anything at the moment, but am always happy to introduce people new to the area or new to BDSM to the local community and never turn down a great opportunity. 

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3/13/2010 1:42:11 AM
Taking myself off the market until life settles a bit. Between Hubby, D, and UPEX, I'm a busy girl!

12/30/2009 1:08:57 AM
As l watch my husband slowly slip away, I wonder if he was my one shot at love, acceptance, passion, sharing, and whether I will ever find love that all-encompassing again. I fear that I will only find playmates, temporary lovers, that I met my allotted quota of love for my life, and I will never have anyone to laugh at my jokes, treat me like a beloved treasure and a fuck toy, or share my secrets with. They're horribly selfish thoughts, but they're in my head as I take care of his needs. As I clean him, brush his hair, shave him, give him his medication, read to him, shop for him, keep him as comfortable and happy as possible - that little niggling voice is in my head,"you will never have love again."

7/6/2009 11:19:38 PM
For the record...

While I'm certainly willing to learn new tricks, and add to my repetoire, I will NOT be changing everything about myself to please ANYONE!

If you don't like me the way I am (hair color, weight, temperment), don't bother chatting me up.

I'm quite happy with myself, and will change only when *I* want it.

7/2/2009 9:32:19 PM
I'm a brat.

I've always been a brat, I'll always be a brat.

It's just the way I am.

Make no mistake, I *LOVE* submitting. I adore it. It's one of my favorite things. But I am, after all, still me.

I'm feisty, outspoken, flirtatious, playful, and quite often downright rebellious. It's all part and parcel of being a "girl". Think of me as a teenager trapped in the body of a woman who has learned to behave a bit like a woman... but who, when comfortable, feels free to be her teenage self.

6/13/2009 2:22:55 PM
Personal Preference # 9 - Honesty, in ALL things. I am politely honest. Not brutally honest, because that would be rude. But politely honest. An example of polite honesty? Q - "Does this outfit make me look fat?" A - "I think we can find something that's more flattering." Polite, yet honest. I insist on honesty from my playmates and friends. Those less-than-honest, don't last long. Even little white lies are too much. If I can't expect complete and total honesty from the people I trust with my life, who shall I get it from? No lies, no liars. Ever. I trust my gut implicitly, if I don't feel "right" about someone, it's usually because they're lying, and I will not hesitate to walk away.

4/29/2009 9:38:16 PM
PP #8 - Personal responsibility.

Several years ago, it came to my attention that I was not taking responsibility for myself. I fell into a familiar trap for a lot of people, I confused submission with abdication of personal responsibility.

I changed my outlook. Fast.

I am responsible for EVERYTHING that I do. I am responsible for my feelings, for my actions, for my reactions, for my words and for my conduct.

Submitting to another does not absolve my personal responsibility. If I have given myself to someone, it is my responsibility to make sure that he/she is aware of plans I have made, or that I ask permission to make plans with others, so that my service to the one to whom I submit is not compromised by my outside activities. Alternatively, it is also my responsibility to stand up (if necessary) to the one to whom I submit if he/she insists I break plans with others, because my integrity is important both as it reflects on me and as it reflects on him/her.

I expect the same out of everyone else.

Personal responsibility, integrity, honor.

Have it.

3/31/2009 9:40:14 PM
PP#7 - Couples. The answer is "No." I love men. I love women. I'm polyamorous. I don't play with couples. I vastly prefer one-on-one play to threesomes (or moresomes). I will, in fact, always turn down offers from couples to play. I can think of only two couples I know that I would consent to play with, and it would be strictly S&M play.

1/30/2009 9:00:15 AM
PP #6 - Affection.

I'm a very affectionate person. I love kissing, hugging, cuddling, holding hands... I need a person interested in being affectionate as well as sadistic. Sweetness with the pain - the perfect combination.

1/28/2009 11:09:00 AM
Particular preference #5 - Spirituality/religion.

I'm a heathen, through and through.

I subscribe to no religion, I am completely free from any spirituality whatsoever.

I do, however, respect the right of others to be just as religious as they please, as long as they do not push their religion/spirituality on me. I won't argue religion, the existence of god, or spiritual philosophy with them, there's simply no point.

People are, quite simply, individuals and as such have completely different ideas and ideals. My desire to believe in myself and what I can see, touch, and feel makes me no less deserving of respect and the right to believe what I wish than every christian, muslim, hindu, buddhist, wiccan, druid, and satanist out there.

1/27/2009 8:51:06 AM
Particular preference #4 -

Yes, I submit/bottom. That does not mean I will allow anyone to punish me for any reason.

If you want to hit me, then do it! Don't be a coward and make up stupid reasons for hitting me, man up and DO IT! Hit me because you enjoy hitting, because it gets your rocks off, because you like the noises, because holding that tool in your hands feels good, because you're a sadist, because you've always wanted to, or for any other reason... but don't EVER hit me because you're pretending I did some stupid little thing wrong. Don't set up insipid arbitrary guidelines in your head ("she didn't do X exactly the way I envisioned it), and then feel it is your right to punish me for not meeting your expectations.

I cannot read your mind, I will not obey those kinds of rules. At the first hint of the word "punishment", I'll be out the door.

Hit me because you like it, not because you have to find a reason to hit me.

12/5/2008 5:46:36 PM
Particular Preference 3 - LIVE AND LOCAL!

I am not in the habit of shelling out cash for plane tickets, bus tickets, or hauling my ass across the country to get laid.

I just don't need to do it.

And, right now, with my circumstances, I simply can't travel.

I insist that anyone I play with/meet up with/ etc live within 50 miles of me or be ready, willing, and able to bring themselves to me.

NO, I can't provide accomodations. Anyone coming to meet me should be perfectly capable of taking care of that themselves.





11/12/2008 5:43:14 PM
Particular preference 2 - Height and size. 

I am 5'9" tall. Taller than the average American male, who comes in 1.3 inches shorter at 5 feet 7.7 inches.

I am, quite simply, not sexually attracted to men shorter than I. I have no desire to beat them, nor be beaten by them. Fuck them or be fucked by them. They make fabulous friends, but nothing will ever go any further. Neither domination nor submission will ever happen with a man shorter than I am. The appeal simply isn't there. Even the women I've loved have all been tall.

Harsh, isn't it? But honest. Always honest.
 
Size is another difficulty. I'm not a small girl. I'll likely never be a small girl. That's really not an option when one comes from a family built like mine. :) I was built for power, not speed :)

Perhaps it's only natural that I'm not attracted to smaller people, that larger frames (think John Goodman, Edward Hermann, Anna Nicole Smith before she went off the deep end completely) turn me on more than Angelina Jolie or Brad Pitt bodies. I prefer padding, muscle, cushion, curves to bones and angles.




10/24/2008 11:44:49 AM
I will whole-heartedly admit to being particular.

Everyone is, in one way or another.

I don't expect people who are uninterested in fat girls to like me, and I don't expect those who prefer quiet little mice to like me.

I don't necessarily expect my preferences to be respected, because people just don't work that way, but if I don't state them, there's no way anyone will understand them... right?

Right.

So - Preference number 1 -

Be well spoken, whether writing or speaking (or, do not sound like Sarah Palin)

I love language. I may not speak or spell perfectly, but I do make an effort. "Chatspeak", "Textspeak", and Ebonics drive me completely crazy. And let me be clear, this has nothing to do with racism. There is an entire class of rich white kids that do this constantly, and I feel the same way about them.

"R" (are), "u" (you), "n" (and), "dat" (that), and other intentional mistakes are, in my book, signs that the mind behind them is simply unwilling to exert itself and give language the effort it deserves. Seeing an email filled with them gives me the impression that the sender is clumsy, incompetent, lazy, and not worth my time.

I always make exceptions for those who speak English as a second language. I would make the same mistakes (or worse) were I to try writing in a foreign language.

Effort matters a great deal. Put the same effort into speaking and writing that you would put into dominating or submitting.


12/29/2007 10:42:30 PM
It's 1:09am, on a Saturday night/Sunday morning. I've had a very busy day, doing all the things normally associated with moving into a new house (new to me, not entirely new) and my partner is sleeping soundly in our bed.

What I really want, right now, is to be fucked. Not the half sleepy-lovey little fuck I'd get if I went into the bedroom and sucked his dick until he woke up, but a REAL fucking. A good, long, screaming, bed-wetting fucking involving at least two holes and a LOT of struggling, spanking, nipple twisting, and swearing.

Fortunately for me, I could have that. My partner is a very gracious, sweet, loving man who accepts that I'm not a monogamous person. He is more  monogamous than I am, but not by much.  We've both had our share of lovers in the last 5 years. Most of them have become good friends of ours, it's fun to go hang out with the guy/girl you or your partner had wild sex with the night before, and have everyone at the table totally cool with each other.

See, I don't have to live in a world where I have to choose one or the other, my partner or everyone else I'm attracted to - I get it all. Polyamory. We get to fall in love with other, have relationships with other people, have sex with other people, and STILL come home to each other and KNOW that there will never be jealousy, or anger, or betrayal. I could go out and get fucked by someone else tonight (if I weren't completely new to this area, and didn't know anyone!) and when I came home, he would ask me if I had fun, and what the guy was like, and a few details... but that's it. There would be no hurt silences, no painful explanations, and above all NO LYING.

I can engage ,or disengage, my heart with my lovers as much as I like. My lovers usually have other lovers, and I've never been jealous of a single one of them.  I have never understood that desire to have "THE ONE", or even to put limits on the amount of happiness, joy, and fun a person I care about can have. I want the people I care about to enjoy their lives, and since sex is one of the most enjoyable things a person can do... why not have lots of it??

None of this means I'm irresponsible. I'm very careful, I practice safer sex. It does mean that while I might fall in love with a short-term lover (and/or he/she might fall in love with me) as long as everyone remembers that, at the end of the day, I am going home to a fabulous man who loves me enough to allow me to be me... we're all good :)

12/1/2007 4:56:28 PM
FOR THE RECORD...

I am NOT your Mistress, your Dominant, your Ma'am, nor will I give a polite reply to ANY email labeling me as such! (In fact, for not reading my profile and behaving like an ass, anyone sending such an email deserves to be treated like a moron!)

I DO NOT believe women are superior to men, nor that men are superior to women, nor will I play along with your little superiority game!

I AM, indeed, a Queer Switch. I bottom, Top, submit, and Dominate.

Any other questions? :)

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annejones
 
 Age: 29
 London / South, United Kingdom