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So it seems I just don't write much here any more. But I think I need to say that as much as it is flattering to receive notes from handsome and promising submissive gentlemen, we are not in the hunt for anyone to move here to be with us. If you are local and seeking FRIENDSHIP then we would enjoy meeting you. Otherwise, as sweet as your letters are, you are wasting your time.
Be Well ~
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Wow, didn't realize how long it had been since I checked in here. I had surgery about 5 weeks ago now. I fell last August and finally had to have repairs done on my right rotator cuff. It sucks! Big time!
Hope everyone is doing good.
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Good Morning! and what a beautiful morning it is today. It was nice and cool earlier, but the sun promises to heat things up soon. I need to do some test painting and work in the garden today. The rains last week have prompted lots of new growth outside, and it seems to also have prompted the growth of new friendships. I eagerly anticipate the new blossoms in all areas of life.
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Wow, I didn't realize it has been so long since I wrote anything. Today began with ICE!!!! Argent slept late so the roads would be thawed out for his drive to work. I went to the dentist. Our dentist is very funny and everyone in the office is fun. Another patient and the receptionist and I had a nice chat about cooking shows and reality shows in general. Then the dentist and I decided we did NOT need to pull a tooth! YEA!!!!! Later today I will give Isis, our 4ft Ball Python her rat and then she will get a new, bigger tank. She just finished shedding, so she she should be hungry. I hope everyone has a really good day. GO out of your way to make one other person smile and see how it makes YOU feel!
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What an incredible morning! There was a small section of a rainbow in the sky this morning. As the sun rose more and more of the rainbow became visible. Finally there was an entire rainbow! It was quite wide and the colors were bright and well defined. It was very impressive and I was amazed to be able to see it all. Just when I thought it had gotten as good as was possible ... another rainbow appeared! As the sun rose and the sunlight moved, the second rainbow continued to grow, until it too was complete!!! It is pretty rare to see an entire rainbow and very rare to see a double rainbow. I wonder how rare it is to see a double that is vivid and distinct.
I watched for a long time. Both rainbows dimmed and the second faded out, only to return in a moment. There was so much mist and dampness in the air that I could see the colors actually between me and a distant tree, almost as if I could see the end of it reaching down to touch the ground! The end of the rainbow! Finally as the sun rose higher, both rainbows slowly faded out and the day began with a clear deep blue sky and small fluffy clouds. I could see a herd of cows in the field across the river and hear several different birds.
What a way to start the day. I hope I can live up to that beginning and do something worthwhile today!
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The fall weather appears to be here, and it's wonderful! Changing seasons remind me of changes in life and that we do not always know which way the next path will lead us. Sometimes that can be frightening, sometimes exciting. But following where the different pathways lead allows us to be open to new ideas, new variations, new friends and many discoveries about ourselves. When we think something is too hard to do or to devestating to go on is when we learn the most. It is precisly those unknown pathways that often lead us to our real selves. May your pathways have exciting surprises hidden in the shadows and warm sunlight to refresh your soul and renew your spirit.
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We very much enjoyed the friends last weekend.
The foxes are so much fun now - 5 babies and mom and dad running around, begging, playing, climbing the tree and the rock pile. They love cat food, dog food, white bread, hamburger and hot dog buns, weiners, tortillas, cookies, peanut butter ... almost anything I will sit outside and feed them!
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Let's see - we had a very nice small party a couple of weeks ago. We may decide to make it something sort of regular, maybe every other month. What's more fun than good friends, good food, good conversation, and electricity!!!!
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Almost forgot ... new tatt! Rose vine with a yellow bud and a yellow bloom along the outter edge of my ear. I love it!
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Wow, time does fly! Last weekend was tireing, but so much fun! Sweet subbies giggling, asking for more ... smiles, shudders, groans ... knives, sparks, the sweet smell of ozone! Bottoms just begging for paddles, Tops always willing to oblige!
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What drives you? What is your passion? What is it that you simply cannot live without? You may find, upon honest reflection that your first response isn't really all that important and you might be totally surprised at what the real answers are. When you recognize your real needs for what they are, you can find fulfillment so much easier.
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Trust; so important, so fragile, so amazing when it is given fully and not taken for granted. To have someone to whom one can freely give all they are, and know, beyond all doubt, that it will be treasured above all else; know the one to whom they give themselves will forever cherish them and hold them dear is a feeling unlike any other.
May each person find that grace and embrace it to the fullest extent possible.
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What a beautiful spring here in the Texas Hill Country. Had a great weekend with a good mix of scene friends one evening, family the next day, and just stuff that was fun to do!
I hope your spring is filled with wonder and joy at all life has to offer!
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Life takes such odd turns. Just when you are not looking, something wonderful happens. Serindipity strikes and takes you by surprise. Problems seem to solve themselves and the fog clears.
Maybe life tries to teach us not to try too hard, but just trust
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I read in a submissive's profile that someone told her the 'dominant' always selected the submissive. They made it sound as if the submissive was not supposed to have any feelings of their own about whether or not it would be a good match. What in the world is that person trying to do? Why wouldn't both persons in a potential relationship express their own feelings about whether or not this was a "good match" for them? What happens when a total sadist selects a hot looking subbie who has absolutely zero tolerance for pain of any kind? Or a rope "expert" selects someone based on looks that has a real phobia about bondage? Shouldn't both (or all) parties be able to express needs, wants, desires, fetish interests and limits in the hope of finding someone as near to compatable as possible? Are the submissives here nothing more than chattel at an auction of some kind (well, in our dreams, maybe!)? Sometimes there are things I read, and hear, that make me go DUH!
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How much we can learn from others! The times when the lessons are the most difficult to understand or to tolerate are the times that are the most important. There may be times we want so very much to take action or "do something" because inaction just chaffs. But those may be the very times that holding our heads high and remaining above the muck and mire are the the absolutely best actions to take.
In the end, our arctions and our inactions do show our true colors and serve to confirm our real intentions. Our desire to do harm or our desire to forgive can be seen by others. Continued demonstrations of negativaty only prove one's real inner self.
That old saying about 'sticks and stones' and the lack of power that words really have if we do not allow them to have any can be hard to live by, but are the truth none the less. And when you honestly think about it, the fact that someone has to take verbal (or typed) pot shots at you really reflects on them; not you. Perhaps releasing their venomous thoughts onto a virtual page helps them vent that rage and feel better. At least if it did there would be a positive outcome to it. So, that is what I hope for - that a person who is obviously still hurting so badly and feeling so angry has been able to release some of that negativity so it will stop posioning them and they can move on with their life.
Nothing in life is ever "all" bad. Nothing in life is so bad that it can't be learned from.
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We just celebrated our 26th anniversary! I got a laptop and he got my head in his laptop! ~weg~ He got something else too!
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mmm ... the king sized bed, the amazingly soft sheets,the ropes, the knife ...
i could write all about it, but i'm not gonna!!! weg!
some things are best left to the imagination!
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I know it sounds just too pretentious or naive, but I love Argent so much! In spite of, or even perhaps because of, some of the hurdles life has tossed in our path over the last year, we have found a deeper and more meaningful love than I would have thought possible. In 6 days we celebrate 26 years of marriage and soon after will mark 29 years together. I never expected to find more ways to love him, more reasons to want him, or a deeper committment to him after this long;but I do. Every morning brings a new feeling of joy and contentment, a new expression of desire and love.
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Changes and circles, how do we see when we move forward?
Perhaps the scars on our hearts show us the path we have followed.
Perhaps I have learned that sometimes something worth keeping is worth risking and sometimes the simple act of fighting for it kills it. Time goes on and what is supposed to happen, happens. Our job is to watch and learn.
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In about an hour now our lives will truly change forever.
Our slave-girl christina has traveled across the US to become our girl full time.
I am so excited and scared and excited and hopeful ...
I want to be the best person I can be for her and I want to help her grow into the best person she can be.
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Welcome into our home and into our hearts sweet, beautiful christina.
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mmmm ... thinking thoughts of one week from tonight ... is the first full day a new girl is in your home too early to have some fun? Thinking about what sort of fun to have with her ... should I make sure she is "ready and begging" by the time Sir gets home? Would that be just too eager?
Instead of having the table set for dinner when he gets home just have her tied there waiting for him? What is appropriate to serve with "fresh subbie"?
Wasabi might be a bit overpowering. Drawn butter might be a bit too hot. Ketchup definately too mundane.
Perhaps just served "au jus"?
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One week!
... but who's counting!!!!
happy, scared, excited ...
will we be "good enough" "strong enough",
will we be what she really needs?
Only time will tell.
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17 days!
How fast/slow the time goes!
How exciting / frightening the thoughts are!
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One week ago today the most amazing person became a reality in our lives, and we are happy, excited, and eagerly anticipating her permanent return.
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33 hours and counting .....
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Friday looms larger - a bit scarey even for us. Subs forget that even the domly ones can worry about approval. What if she thinks we are just not a good fit for her needs? What if she thinks I am not serious enough? What if she thinks I do not have a sense of humor? What if she doesn't think we can be strict enough? affectionate enough? whatever enough or too much!
ahhh, deep breath, relax - she seems more real than anyone we have spoken to in 2+years now! All we can do is be ourselves. and maybe start cleaning up that extra room!
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Two weeks and two days are forever,
but then, oh! How the time will fly.
I know as soon as we say hello,
It will seem like we have to say good bye.
Who knows what adventures await us,
and what longing the meeting will stir,
But I do know it will be music to us,
The first time we hear "Ma'am and Sir"!
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And just when you decide to give up, pack up your tent and go home ... a new jewel appears on your path!
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** I
could have missed the pain, But I'd of
had to miss the dance
**Garth Brooks
If you
look closely at the tapestry of a person's life you will see that the richest
colors and deepest hues are woven around the most painful times, for it is from
the pain that our true selves are forged and from those times emerges the soft
sweet colors that will grow into our own rainbow.
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What a wonderful thing when someone is exactly who and what they say! What a great time can be had when someone really "gets it"!
What fun at Home Depot! muhahahahaaa~
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Life goes on and what is constant is constantly changing. Sometimes the changes are sudden and drastic; sometimes they are a slow metamorphasis. Who we are today is not who we will be tomorrow.
Who are you?
What can you do to make this world a better place to live in?
Even a small gesture can have far reaching consiquences.
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Hope everyone had a good holiday with someone special. We spent a wonderful two days with family ~ eating too much, playing games and generally having fun. Now we are looking forward to New Year's and spending some time with another couple we met here on CM, getting to know them better and hopefully finding some good solid connections on which we will be able to build something fun! |
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HI, I just updated our profile and still left out one important fact.
While I am interested in finding a boy or even just a play-bottom, I am NOT looking for that person to live in our home, at least not at this point.
If Argent found a young lady that we got to know and was very compatable with us, it would be very possible for her to be a live in.
It is an incredible day here in the Texas Hill Country, cool, crisp and beautiful sun. Anyone who says that Texas does not have good color changes in the fall ought to be out driving arond now. The Red Oaks, the Cedar Elms, the Flame Bushes are all in full colors with bright reds, golds, oranges, yellows mixed with the still green of the Live Oaks, Junipers, and Cedars. We have tall grasses that turn silvery-purple and auburn-red this time of year and roll in delicate waves as the winds blow through them. The squirrels are busy grabbing acrons before they fall, and the deer are entertaining as they begin the annual "Hey, baby, check out this rack ... " competition.
I hope everyone is having a good weekend with someone they love!
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OK, I knew it would take a while to find a good match and I was pretty excited when someome from CM was both interested in what I wanted to do and interesting to me. But when he does not return my emails, says he will call at a certain time to arrange to meet for lunch, and in general seems to act as if I should be availabe when ___he___ has the time or inclination. Trying to be patient and going slow seems to have backfired on me. Oh well ... back to the quest!
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Hello,
I wanted to say how much I like CM. I have been meeting folks in a chat room and so far it is one of the most polite and calm chat rooms I have ever been in! I have recieved some very nice emials from some very interesting gentlemen, and have reconnected with someone we met in real life a couple of years ago. I have also met some fun folks in the chats that I hope to get to know better.
For right now I am getting to know two nice gentlemen, so while I do not want to take our profile down, I wanted to say that I need to devote my attention to them so that we can get to know each other and see what might develope.
Thank you and good fortune in your journey, where ever it takes you,
MsOpal |
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