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I have been a poly person. I am a caring Dom that is very sadistic when the timing is right. Although I am into polys I am looking for that one female person. I would be more than happy to be monogamous with.



I have been in the lifestyle for some time. I have been on here before I have had some luck and some bad luck. It is hard to find a true person or people that match what you are looking for. I have many different interest and many different skills. I am a Daddy Dom, I am a Sadistic Dom, and I am a Caring Dom. For if you dont care for who you are with then why should they care for you back? Having a submissive or a slave is a gift, not a right. I have seen way too many Doms just not care about their subsslaves. It doesnt matter if the Dom is female or male, I have seen it way too much and I want to tell you I am not them.



It is not really about the caring but about the respect. I respect you in your place and you will respect me in mine, if not then we will not work. I will always respect you and if I ever dont you have a right to speak up, always. There is a difference between disrespectful in playing and just being disrespectful. We can be playful like that if you are with me then you will be punished, if I am with you then that are because I am aware that deep down you like it, if you dont then we need to talk.



Now as for what I am looking for. It depends on the person if they would be a good slave or a sub. There some aspects that I want a slave, I want to have my will against them no matter what. There are times that I would prefer a sub. I have had them both for long periods of time. What it comes down to is I dont want to micro manage you. I enjoy telling you to do this little task here and there. I want you to do as you are told, you can question it and you can delay but you always do as you are told. I love being able to take care of you, that is where the Daddy Dom comes in. I need to know you can take care of yourself, be able to help me at times but I am the caregiver. I love being able to take you out, give you things, have special days, I love being called Daddy. I do love that but in the vanilla world I do have kids from a divorce. They will always come first. My time and money will always go to them first and I have to be stable enough to take care of them so I will not be taken advantage of. As much as I would like to have a little live with me so I can provide everything 247 I do not have money so you will have to be able to stand on your own.



I do have kids and I do not want you to ever feel like you are second to them. We know they are number one for me, as all kids should be by their parents, but once you get past a stage and you are willing to spend time with me while the kids are around (keeping everything vanilla) I can spend time with all of you. I am ok if you have kids as well. I just dont want more. In the past I have had some subs move in with me and if we get that far, we will talk about that then. I do not have my kids all the time either.



Back to what I am looking for, my play interest besides Daddylittle is a wide range including impact and, sensory play. My impact is and will always be over the knee kings, bare hand to be exact. I love the feel of skin on skin, because of that you will be shaved below. I do love something as simple as that but I also enjoy others. I love rope, orgasm control, flogging, whips, canes, knife play, and ification, along with others. Some of the extreme play that a lot of people do not like is water sports and chastity devices. I also love pet play. I do not like blood play, needles, or scat play. I do like hair pulling and choking.



That being all said I am looking for a sub or a slave. Because I am bi and I do enjoy a poly, I would love to be the owner of a couple. A male and a female, they can both be slaves, or both subs, or a mixture. One can even be a switch but they will not Dom me. I would be listed as the top Dom in our little group. I enjoy talking with people and meeting friends. If you are far away I will not shy away from that either as long as there is a possibility of you or both of you moving here sometime but there is no rush. I would be happy to give you task, I can edge you from a distance. I know many ways I can still have fun with you if you lived at a distance. If you are not a couple I would be happy with a female willing to have a poly and open to have a male co subslave. The guy can always be added later. I also would be very happy with just a female slave and not finding a second, again it depends on the relationship.



Looks wise, I am into girls that are shorter than me, the shorter the better, I am 5 foot 7. I have no preference with guys. I am also happy with a trans but I need them to be a passable trans as well as shorter than me. I am ok with average size of look or a few extra pounds. I am very happy with skinny and in shape. I have nothing against people that are larger, it is just a preference. I work out when I can and I like to stay in shape. I want my sub or slaves to do the same or I would order them too. I dont want to offend anybody but you could say it is just a sexual preference. It is who I am attracted to sexually.



Happy hunting!

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catchmecarie
 
 Age: 32
 Germany