I am a strong, type A, alpha woman. I'm fit, athletic, successful at my career and generally competent at most stuff I do.
I'm a masochist but not particularly submissive. I prefer my relationships to be a partnership of peers where each person takes the lead in areas of expertise but where the expectation of leadership isn't pushed on one person based on their gender or sexual preferences, regardless of their skills.
I look for a peer - someone who is also strong, secure, competent and fit - and with no more than about a 15 year age gap to me. And NOT MARRIED! I see a lot of men who say they want a strong woman but when push comes to shove, they want the woman to be strong in all situations except with them. Or they want the fit woman with the hot body, but are out of shape couch potatoes themselves.
I can't just turn off who I am like a light switch. I want someone who likes strong women who knows what they want and likes to play hard.
2/1/2022 10:12:35 AM
For folks seeking - I don't do power dynamics. I am not submissive. Bottom isn't an available option on the drop down. But that's more about who I am. So if you want someone as a lifestyle submissive, I'm not a fit.
5/6/2016 5:07:25 AM
I will not relocate. There is nothing that someone can offer that can make up for all the things that I would give up, both personally and financially, if I moved.
