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For some, this is a difficult place to be. There is that strong compulsion to explore and understand the emotions and needs that bring them here to places like this, tempered against the desire to ‘just be normal’ It can be a difficult, often self-deprecating, conflict laden journey
I have used my education in counselling and psychology combined with my personal interest in D/s to help guide people through the minefield that is the psychology of kink based emotions and needs.
My approach is generally centered around two things.
Firstly that it is very largely the conflict between what you think you *should* want and what you do want that makes what you are here for so utterly compelling and intoxicating. The forbidden fruit is always the sweetest.
Secondly, I try to help people connect the dots between who they are now, and how they became that person. Helping them to understand psychological, neurological and personal factors that are likely to have come into play to produce the unique set of desires that they have.
This is my profession, I have a small business that helps people resolve relationship issues, I don’t specifically focus that business on kink but I always particularly enjoy helping people who are having issues related to kink. Simply because it is something I have a reasonably strong personal experience of.
On a more personal note, my motives for being here…
I’m here because I enjoy talking and exploring these things, it widens my knowledge to explore things with people. If I happen to stumble upon someone who things click with, then maybe that will go further.
I am not a shouty, screamy kind of dom. I am quiet, reserved and generally calm in everything I do. I do not attempt to impose my dominant traits on everyone I speak to, I like to put the time into knowing someone before I attempt to apply any sort of control. As a submissive you don't submit to anyone / everyone - as a dominant, I don't attempt to dominate everyone.
Finally, I’m not here to ask for, or share pictures of anything more personal than a bad haircut! And I’m a reasonably rubbish one handed typer so that’s not really a thing I do either.
I’m here to find, and talk to interesting people. I’m also here to potentially lend a helping hand where possible.
So if you want to come and say hello, I’ll look forward to your company.
Otherwise, it was nice of you to visit.
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I have been asked this a few times now -
| That doesn't answer why you would come on here and help people-free of charge. Everything comes with a price. |
so I thought I would leave my answer behind too
Because if we can help, we should help.
It stops the world being quite so fucked up.
I'm here looking for someone, but at the same time I have a skillset that might be able to be of assistance to some.
So instead of calling myself DomlyDomDom or something equally meaningless, I went with this, because its the right thing to do. |
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Just as a quick addition.
If I message someone, it is probably simply because I'm curious about some aspect of that profile. I'm not here looking for sex (of any kind) |
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| Age: 19 |
| TOWNSVILLE,
Australia |
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